Does appearance/ attraction make a difference?

[Jebediah S]

To me, as an escort, looks in the mp.net mean absolutely zilch! Personality more so, it's always going to be a better session if you get on. I think that's pretty obvious but not to say you cant have a good session regardless thats where being a good escort comes in.

 

[IRev. Albert Einstein]

99% of the time i visit the same parlour. Theres quite a large mix of different girls there and all are very nice Reviewom what i've seen so far. However of course, there will always be one who catches your eye and that attraction can indeed make the sex that much more exciting.

Although in my experience it isn't just Appearance/looks that make or break a punt, Mood is also very important, but ofcourse this cannot be established until you are in the room with the girl and it was attraction that got you there in the first place. So yes, in my opinion it does make a difference. Probably more so for Indie girls though as at a parlourthere is usualy 4 or 5 girls to "choose" Reviewom (i hate that though to be honest, I hate feeling like i'm being rude to the girl/girls i don't choose LOL) where as if you book an indie girl (most of whom don't show mugshots and a lot of the Attraction is in the face) there is a higher chance that that initial Attraction will not be there. Parlours have the advaneforum.xxxe of numbers.

 

[Black orchid]

Some great answers on here and some surprising comments too, though saying that we're all different and we all have our little quirks. For me, i learnt a longtime ago that looks aren't everything and as some of the ladies here haves said it is the personality that will in the end draw you to that person. You can get a good idea of a person and their personality form reading what they sayt about themselves, which can be backed up after chatting with them. I too have in my ties seen the odd WG that really was a stunner in looks, that said personality must have been passed on to the next person in line and to be honest after that I said never again. But we learn. So, in answer to the question looks aren't everything and appearence doesn't necessarily make the difference when it comes to attractiion.

 

[MostWanted]

I would have thought chemistry would be more likely to affect service, but then again, attraction can be a part of chemistry, along with personality.

 

[Lost and Found]

I would say that it was the other way round. If you are naturally attracted to someone then you put in less effort, as the effort is not necessary when you are doing what comes naturally. It is a completely natural response. However, if you are with someone that you do not find attractive (mentally or physically) you do have to put a lot more effort into it to ensure that they don't feel it or see it in you. I would hate anyone to walk away Reviewom me with a low ego, I want them to be walking on air and whether I fancy then or not is immaterial.

Please do not forget though, that even if there is not physical attraction at first sight, mental attraction is just as powerful and I have had some amazing times with men I have been mentally attracted to and in many cases there has been much more sexual chemistry with men I would not have imagined it possible with at first sight, who have been far better bed fellows than ones I thought I would click with due to physical attraction.

Also, you can become physically attracted to someone due to mental attraction. Of course the person still looks the same, but it's that twinkle in the eye, that gorgeous smile that lights up the room or their gorgeous physique that you don't get to see until the clothes are off. It's like stripping off the layers of an onion and each layer brings new dimensions and potential attraction.

We are very complex creatures and there is often no way of understanding why one union works and another one doesn't, which is why it is such a mine field when punting. You can only do so much to ensure a booking is successful, but now and again with all the research in the world, it just won't work due to a personality clash etc.

 

[T. Le]

I see your point and a very good one at that. The research is hard work an as u say it's a minefield just hope that my first ever punt does not put me off lol .
Attraction can be anything u want it be whether it's mental or physical think everyone gets paranoid though .

 

[The God of tickling]

A little rambly, but I got there in the end

I'm not sure paranoid is the correct word, it's more confidence. Even us escorts can lack confidence once in a while. I must have a dozen guys a week tell me how gorgeous I am and even stunning on occasion and one thing is said to make me feel second rate and all the good is undone. Thankfully it does not last long though and the good times start again.

If you have not been told that you are attractive or a good kisser or made to feel geniunely desired for some time, then it is only natural that self doubt is going to set in. What I can tell you though, is that once you have made that booking, all those feelings should melt away and you will start to believe in yourself. I know this has happened with some of my clients and it is one of the rewards of the job.

 

[eastglam]

That was a very uplifting post Kate thanks x

 

[Rev. Michael S. Margolin]

You're welcome and good luck x

 

[Jinkys]

Reviewom my perspective, most girls are sexually attractive in one way or another, especially when they are naked & ready for sex!

In this game blokes are after sexual gratification and maybe an ego massage along the way. Most WG's seem to know this and as professionals they act accordingly keeping their standards high whatever the client looks like. Client is happy as long as his needs are satisfied at the end of the punt!!

Having said that, I have had a couple of meetings with attractive inexperienced girls where I am sure they think "this guy fancies me and is going to propose or something!).....they back off a little, things get awkward and the chemistry is gone.

 

[falas6een7ora]

Its a little bit of fantasy that I am after, something missing Reviewom normal life. If I looked like a holywood actor i guess i would have other outlets.

 

[ICEBALLS 2]

Looks would be important to me yes, as would attraction of course.

I would like to think that most girls out there would take good care of themselves and make themselves look a class above.

I cannot imagine what it would be like to visit one who was the entire opposite, I think I'd be out of the door at first sight!