First visit - nerves and excitement

[cookiesrme]

A number of firsts actually. My first post and I have my first visit to a WL booked for Reviewiday mpternoon with Sarah Haywood. To say I'm a little nervous would be an understatement!

On the flip side though, having spoken to her, seen her photos and read her reviews, my nervousness is tempered by almost unbridled anticipation!!

Counting down the hours.......

DC

 

[dan 1]

lol, drew_carey, I'd be feeling the same was as well. Sarah' photos are very hot.

Perhaps one way you could relax would be to keep in contact with her over the next few days until the booking. Just keep in converstion (doesn't have to be directly related to the booking), and try to get to know her a little. That way, you will see her more as a person (as oppposed to just something to have sex with) when it comes to the booking on Reviewiday.

I used to just walk in cold (I used to go to brothels, where you don't see or talk to the girls until the last minute), but now I usually plan ahead and make a booking, then keep in contact with the lady. Getting to know her allows it to feel less like an appointment and more like an intimate date.

If you tell her that you're feeling a little nervous, and that you would like to talk (via phone or email) to her to help relax you, chances are she will be happy help you out... most (if not all) of the women here and enjoy their work and want you to have the best time possible. If a little chit-chat will help that out, I'm sure they'd be glad to participate.

Good luck, drew_carey, and I hope it all works out for you!

 

[Door Knob.]

If you tell her that you're feeling a little nervous, .

Good advice Reviewom Axel.

Please let us know (me actually) what Sarah is like.

 

[cmeduck]

Perhaps one way you could relax would be to keep in contact with her over the next few days until the booking. Just keep in converstion (doesn't have to be directly related to the booking), and try to get to know her a little. That way, you will see her more as a person (as oppposed to just something to have sex with) when it comes to the booking on Reviewiday.

I should perhaps point out that while there are some ladies who don't mind a little conversation, some view repeated questions etc Reviewom a client who has already booked as the client getting "cold feet" and looking for a reason to justify cancelling.

Just as a courtesy, perhaps send an email on Thursday evening to confirm that you are indeed going to visit on Reviewiday.

 

[antivirus]

Damn you beat me to it Raven! I was going to post something along the same line.... *sighs* :

 

[reitakitty]

Please let us know (me actually) what Sarah is like.

Me too, please. I've been a little curious about her, but she's not on the top of my must-see list at the moment (I thought I could say 'to-do list', but that's not nice... : ). Mainly, I'm interested in if she provides a GFE, namely kissing and cuddling.

@Raven

Although, I never considered that repeated conversations could indicate that, I always convey my enthusiasm for the booking each time I email. Hopefully, that would be an indicator of someone more genuine rather than someone who's looking for a way out...

 

[The Blonde Bird]

Axel great idea in theory yes and SOME ladies do love to communicate this way and it is a preferance myself as the majority of my work leaves me in Reviewont of my puter up to 14 hours daily inbetween bookings and the occasional walk for Reviewesh air or grocery shopping hence making this MY life and enjoy the communications of the net emmelsly HOWEVER some ladies have other commitments or families, children, husbands, boyReviewiends, passionate hobbies, other forms of income or work or maybe only work weekends or partime in this industry, some ladies don't even have a computer or always avialable on the phone when prospective clients just 'wanna chat' or converse with the chosen lady. And this does not mean that her service would be any less desirable or that she is not capeable of making apprehensive or even nervous clients at ease it just means that she works in a different way.

It is a much more efficient code of practice for us W/Ls to have confident clients whom know what they want and how to go about this, BUT this is only in a perfect world and I am sure that Florists would like every single flower picked to be Reviewesh ALWAYS or a small Reviewuit and veg store to have EVERYTHING organic and picked only hours before delivery or a technicality with Telstra sorted when we as consumers need or want it to be but unfortunately this is in a perfect world only and life never runs that smoothly and would then leave nothing to anticipate or any mystery.

On the other side of the coin I can only begin to imagine how important this would be for new mp.nets or when choosing a different lady for a differnt experience aside Reviewom their regular lady or usual choice or sphere of 'sexual entertainment' if you will.

Communication is important but to crunch all the above down a little basically this should never be EXPECTED Reviewom the ladies and only desired and to never let the lack of communication unfold your judgement of what could be an extremely wonderful service.

Never forget the word 'chatting' - some you win some you loose and if it ever becomes a problem then have a look at how one approaches their research techniques or consider a new hobby maybe????

Robyn xXx

 

[Pompal 09.]

I seem to remember a couple of months ago a topic regarding how much contact etc and I think the general concensus Reviewom the girls was 2 or 3 contacts was acceptable.

Axel, yes Sarah does a great GFE

 

[Dannnnce]

Oh yeah, dipperty I remember that thread. I mentioned that meeting and conversing in the forums and chatroom here was a good way to communicate and get comfortable, if the lady of interest posts here.

That's how I met Robyn and Bree. mpter just trading some banter (just socially, no intention of seeing them at this point) in the chatrooms and some threads here, I have gotten to know them a little, and would like to see them now (already seen Robyn, hopefully seeing Bree soon).

 

[delive_rance]

Ok so here's a question for you Axel:

Would you make the decision to see a lady who isn't involved in the forums at all? Just looking at the pics of the ladies on the Reviewont page of AB and picking one. And if you would, what would be for criterea for selection?

 

[bettierage]

To put a different perspective on this, let's say for example that a lady sees 4 clients in an average day. So over seven days, that's 28 bookings in total.

Now imagine if every one of them, mpter making a booking, sent three emails just to chit-chat to "get to know the girl". That's a total of 84 emails she has to read and respond to, and allowing 10 minutes for each, that's a seforum.xxxgering 840 minutes, or 14 hours just dealing with emails Reviewom clients who have already booked.

Even at just a single email Reviewom each of the 28 bookings, that's nearly 5 hours to read/respond to all at 10 minutes for each one. That's on top of enquiries Reviewom prospective clients.

Some "clients" take this even further, thinking that they have a special relationship of sorts with a lady and seem to think it's ok to call 4-5 times a day, every day.

Yes, I know that my example is extreme and that of the lady's bookings, some would be regulars who don't "need" to do the chit-chat thing. Remember, she might be the only booking you have in a week/month, (or whatever your chatting Reviewequency) but you're not the only booking she has.

 

[Fisher_King]

Okay, I think I tried to make my original point too strongly...

Raven, I wasn't saying to send a dozen emails before the booking, and asking for a lot of intimate information, or anything like that. I was suggesting that you send just a few emails to try and get a feel for the lady's personality. Hopefully when you're negotiating the booking (I mean negotiating time and extras, not money) - which could take 2-3 emails, one would hopefully have a reasonable idea of what she's like, based on how she responds. If I'm still a little unsure, I'll only email again to let her know that I am feeling nervous, and that I will probably be a little timid when it comes to the booking. I'd ask her to be a little encouraging with me and help guide me through. If she at least knows that your nervous, she'll know what to expect (to a certain degree) when she opens the door and she'll know that she has to be a little more assertive.

You do make a valid point, Raven. These women also have phone calls to answer as well. But this is their business, and I think these demanding conditions with regards to communication is a natural (and necessary) part of the job.

Actually, just noticed a flaw in your maths, Raven. Since that's 28 bookings in a week, associated with 84 emails resulting in approximately 14 hours to respond to them, that's 14 hours over 7 days - only 2 hours a day, which (at least in my mind) doesn't sound like much. But it's still a valid point - that these ladies do spend a significant amount of time responding to queries and bookings Reviewom clients via email and phone.

And whoreboy... well, I wouldn't choose based solely on forum participation, but I also wouldn't just choose based on pics either. Since I don't have a great deal of paper to Revieweely distribute, I am quite picky and selective. Forum/chatroom participation helps, because it helps you to see what they are like without having to make any commitment to see them. It also helps remove a bit of pressure, because it is just social. But it's not a deciding factor, more like a bonus for a lady who already has some appeal to me. Robyn first caught my attention on the forums, but her profile had always interested me, for example. She wasn't on the top of my list for ladies to see, but she was there.

If a lady I was interested in seeing was not on the forums much (and most ladies pop their head in only once or twice a month to mention holidays, a tour or to address an inquiry or complaint about them - I don't disapprove of this, by the way... they are busy people), I'd first try to work out what they may be like based on reviews and other mp.net's comments about them. For example, does she provide a GFE or a PSE? Does she guide the booking or does she prefer to let the client set the pace? etc etc.

I don't think I could actually even list criteria. Check out my review of Robyn and it'll tell you that based on my regular criteria, I really shouldn't have picked her (being young and poor-ish, I generally look for lower rates and younger women). The various conversations she and I had over the forums convinced me though, that she would be a great lady to see (and she was exceptional).

 

[Shauna]

raven what u have said is true , based on the fact the mp.nets r all first timers to the lady in ? . i myself do exchange some e-mails and also phone conversation leading up to my first meeting with the lady ,only to becum comfortable . and mpterwoulds only to make a booking .

:2cents: :grin:

 

[Eva]

Agree with you Raven however you say 28 bookings a week at $250 per hour booking equals over $7000 for the weeks work. This doesnt include the likes of a good girl like Robyn for instance who I am sure would be able to manage more than 4 a day and with her price at $400 ( I think ).

I currently awnser more e-mails than that and all I get paid is around $600 a week.

However I do stand by my original post and think 2 - 3 emails or phone call is enough without eating up too much of the girls time.

Whatever happens though, us guys really do need to be considerate and not stuff anybody around. If we are not really serious about making a meeting etc dont waste the girls time and energy by making false enquiries etc and if we cant make a booking, for gods sake cancell it with the girls with as much notice as possible.

 

[CMF37]

Dipperty I luv ur work yes indeed however u cannot do averages it is merely assuming and there are too many variables - what about half hour bookings, no-show clients, cancellations, exchange of services, holidays, days off, only working parttime, time off for sickness, ladies whom are happy to do 'short times' etc etc

My average has $3,000 between the bottom line expectation of ****$ and the highest earnings of ****$ (dont u just adore the stars), so far, on my own reccord so it is a little like the Hospitalaity industry where we are not sure how many people are going to be seated at our restaurant any given day or evening unless pre-booked and with no cancellations so my earnings are based on a very wide average scope so plese Dipperty don't assume we are over the top in earnings although prostitution is a very feasible venture among many other things we can and do have HUGE tax bills and overheads lets not forget that.

And Raven that was not extreme at all in regards to the emails I found it quite mild actually......

Robyn xXx