flowers for MPA

[Texas Chic]

I have a question that I'm wrestling with.

I've developed a good relationship (clicked with, whatever you want to call it) with an MPA, and I'm up in the air about seeing her outside of the MP. I've seen her twice, and I left our last session on a very good note. I got the distinct impression that there was some emotional attachment on her part as well. In part because she opened up to me a bit on how she feels about what she does. On a side note, I think we all take for granted what these girls go through - 99% of us walk out of a MP and never think twice about what the girl feels like at the end of a shift.

Anyway...

Unfortunately, I can't see her for a couple weeks. I don't want to lose any ground before next time I see her, and frankly, I also want to do something nice for her.

Would sending some flowers be a little over-the-top? Has an MPA ever gotten flowers before? I'm sure some schmuck somewhere has tried it.

 

[Kristen P]

As long as you send it to her place of work and dont get too goofy or clingy with the attached note. I cant see her having a problem with it. But to send one after only seeing her twice...just remember the majority of the girls are putting up a front or an act for the majority of their clients and although you might feel extra special with her...she might not have the same feelings for you.

Perhaps a simple note....just wanted to say hi, thinking of you and thought this would make your day. See you soon...your friend VC from buffalo

 

[Kathleen from Germany]

Who you calling schmuck? .... grrrr

I think 99% may be an over estimation. ..

Send the flowers, just stay aware that there is a "grey" area, you are a client and she is providing a paid service even if feelings get mixed into the pot.

As Sheiky said, try and keep anything you may write simple, such as :

And if I don't meet you no more in this world
Then I'll, I'll meet you in the next one
And don't be late, don't be late
'Cause I'm a voodoo child

____________
We are not stalkers, we are just lonely and confused

 

[Lizzii]

Hi,
It's true that we often forgett that these girls are also human beings with feelings and a life.
All I can say is do it, but be very careful, if you do start a relationship, you have to remember were you both met and the work she does. If both of you are ok with this and you are comfortable with her trade, as it's a "job", send the flowers and hope that all works out for you!

Good luck!!

Mingo

 

[blue eyed devil]

Just get her a framed picture of yourself. That's the best gift you could give her.

 

[w/e child]

AAAAAHHHHH
Don't do it!
(not the most literate or well articulated of posts, but kind of gets the point across. But then again, so did Rusty's!)

 

[corporal.hicks]

Just an added note, but in my experience a simple thoughtful gesture can go a long way ...

 

[stung4ever]

The child of the receptioniist got the furry animal but I got the bare

 

[YooHoo]

Send her the flowers, just put your name on the note. Let's see which way she'll take them. Next time you see her just feel her out (no pun intended). If she took them in a romantic way, great. If she didn't, then you don't make a fool of yourself.

 

[to the end.Hello Good Bye]

Gotta agree with blopar on this one. Don't fall into a trap thinking that when she opened up to you that your different from the next guy who walked in. She is getting paid for a service and if she can make every guy feel the same way as you are then she's doing her job. It's about building a relationship at her place of work where your paying her.

 

[Ashley:)]

Confession :

What I did was take a single rose and give it to her in person. I'd agree that the "relationship" should be kept within the confines of the session. It really did seem genuinely appreciated ... drifts off ...