I donated a gift certificate to be given as a "Mother of the Year Award". I felt comfortable making this donation because motherhood is something I hold near and dear.
The woman came in for her massage, and was floored that I had donated the massage, and that no one had paid me. She gave me a sizable tip and had me come to her office with my new client gift certificates, offering the first 1/2 hour at regular price and the second 1/2 hour complementary. She took me around from office to office, introduced me, and gave me the opportunity to give out my certificates. On top of that she bought me a beautiful china tea pot.
Now I was the one who was floored. This woman's generosity far exceeded mine. I did get one woman, from that day, who came in to use her new client gift certificate but I never saw her again after that appointment.
It didn't matter though. I had already received so much already. This woman's gratitude was overwhelming. If you give for the joy of giving, and you do it for something you're passionate about, you will always get something back, no matter what it is, and whether you expect it or not.
Last year a local newspaper called me about having my business name added to the list of sponsors supporting a drunk driving campain. 16 years ago my daughter and I were hit by a drunk driver. I didn't even have to think about it. True, due to lack of money, I could only make the smallest dontation they would accept, but I dontated what I could.
Maybe some day someone will see my name and remember that they saw it in the list of sponsors, and call me instead of another therapist; maybe not. But because the cause was close to my heart, just donating my small amount of money immediately gave me something back. This time it's no more than a good feeling, but it was worth it.
I try to keep my donations to a minimum. When it feels right to say yes, I do. When it doesn't, I don't. If I'm not sure, I ask them to call me back in a day or two, after I've had some time to check my budget. Doing just 2-3 of these type of things a year is not enough to make me feel like I'm being taken advaneforum.xxxe of, but it does make me feel good; like I'm speaking up for what I feel is important. I like to do that.