H.E.
which do you prefer, great ladies who are naturally busy, or mediocre ones who aren't. i think you would agree its no contest.
you can see this as a problem or an opportunity to organize your time better and use your meetings more efficiently.
i suggest analyzing your past meetings and determine how much of that time was wasted and how much you could save if you cut out the needless part. its not meant as a criticism. everybody wastes time in meetings. i've learned to announce at the beginning what time i have to leave, and keep track, periodically, out loud as the meeting progresses, especially near the end. after all, you have another client whom you can't keep waiting, right? after you've said "i've got 5 more minutes" a few times and your client realizes you're serious, you'll be surprised at how well they learn to use that seemingly short amount of time.
before you know it, people will come to admire you for your efficiency, and will be grateful to you for it, especially when you bump into eachother in the waiting room at the spa.
hope you can accept this in the spirit it is given...ie. helping you get to see the lady of your choice when you want to see her