How can I enjoy blowjobs more?

[Nalgen]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she doesn't kiss much though but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she wasn't much of a kisser but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know all guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

I can force it if I do not want to take too long by clenching the area between my balls a shaft. If it has been a couple days since last time I do not have to force it normally. I will say MPAs are not as committed as independent hookers and for me have notoriously given blowjobs on the light side. You should feel it easily and even without teeth so use of suction a lip tightening and slurping and tongue and such.

 

[Nalgen]

I can force it if I do not want to take too long by clenching the area between my balls a shaft. If it has been a couple days since last time I do not have to force it normally. I will say MPAs are not as committed as independent hookers and for me have notoriously given blowjobs on the light side. You should feel it easily and even without teeth so use of suction a lip tightening and slurping and tongue and such.

I agree, BJ quality between sex workers is all over the place, some are not really into blowjobs and I genuinely feel bad if I ask them to suck me off even for half of the session. And then there are women who do enjoy it (from what I can tell) and would have no problems giving me an entire BJ only session. And regardless of who is sucking I tell them they can stop and take a break whenever they want, cause I know a blowjob is a definitely a job.

I would say the woman this session liked to give blowjobs and she did an excellent job with the BJ (from what I can tell at least, I have to admit that I am not a BJ expert), afterwards I was standing and cleaning my penis with a towel I noticed the white sheet on top of the massage table was all wet with about a paper sized patch of saliva because that is how much she sucked my dick (I never seen anything like that before so I don't have anyone else to compare with) so I take it that is a positive sign, am I right or wrong or reading too much into this?

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

i agree, BJ quality between sex workers is all over the place, some are not really into blowjobs and I genuinely feel bad if I ask them to suck me off even if only half of the session. And then there are women who do enjoy it (from what I can tell) and would have no problems giving me an entire BJ only session. And regardless of who is sucking I tell them they can stop and take a break whenever they want, cause I know a blowjob is a definitely a job.

I would say the woman this session liked to give blowjobs and she did an excellent job with the BJ (from what I can tell at least, I have to admit that I am not a BJ expert), afterwards I was standing and cleaning my penis with a towel I noticed the white sheet on top of the massage table was all wet with about a paper sized patch of saliva because that is how much she sucked my dick (I never seen anything like that before so I don't have anyone else to compare with) so I take it that is a positive sign, am I right or wrong or reading too much into this?

I would appreciate that effort. I like to cum inside them whether fucking with a condom or cim and it requires know how and a good attitude not trying to reinvent the lightbulb and I am not that difficult but not bulletproof.

 

[Hearme-Roar]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she wasn't much of a kisser though but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know all guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

If its a cbj, I can last forever, and eventually like you, I lose wood. They are only for getting hard before fucking with that condom on. I insist on no cover. BBBJs, I can almost always come. A bj is better than masturbating, so I knock it off before I go visit the girl so I can enjoy an explosion in a woman's mouth instead of on my own hand.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I agree, BJ quality between sex workers is all over the place, some are not really into blowjobs and I genuinely feel bad if I ask them to suck me off even for half of the session. And then there are women who do enjoy it (from what I can tell) and would have no problems giving me an entire BJ only session. And regardless of who is sucking I tell them they can stop and take a break whenever they want, cause I know a blowjob is a definitely a job.

I would say the woman this session liked to give blowjobs and she did an excellent job with the BJ (from what I can tell at least, I have to admit that I am not a BJ expert), afterwards I was standing and cleaning my penis with a towel I noticed the white sheet on top of the massage table was all wet with about a paper sized patch of saliva because that is how much she sucked my dick (I never seen anything like that before so I don't have anyone else to compare with) so I take it that is a positive sign, am I right or wrong or reading too much into this?

I got a cim bj for one hour and a half with one small break from my best girl fairly recently. Towards the end she said "do you want to cum" and I said "yes" we turned it into a 69 and I also started a fantasy in my head about her and I came 5 minutes left in the session. She made a hero out of me it was all her. I was erect throughout but less than always making me a bit smaller for the bulk of it making it easier to go that long but she is always more than fair. I had just finished an all nighter and on my third shot.

 

[Nalgen]

I would appreciate that effort. I like to cum inside them whether fucking with a condom or cim and it requires know how and a good attitude not trying to reinvent the lightbulb and I am not that difficult but not bulletproof.

Just wondering, how old are you (you don't have to answer if you don't want to I guess, but this is an anon forum and you have a pretty recent account so I don't see why not, or you can give an age range).

I have never came without a condom before (but I usually don't go for BBFS) so I don't go for CFS because honestly I don't like it, so it has to be BBBJ or HJ finish when it comes to sex workers.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Just wondering, how old are you (you don't have to answer if you don't want to I guess, but this is an anon forum and you have a pretty recent account so I don't see why not, or you can give an age range).

I have never came without a condom before (but I usually don't go for BBFS) so I don't go for CFS because honestly I don't like it, so it has to be BBBJ or HJ finish when it comes to sex workers.

I am 60 but I take care of myself with diet and exercise. I don"t think I am the biggest stud in the world but I am making up for lost time lately and loving it. Never caught STDs been checked three times in last year. I taught first aid and feel I have a knowledge of what to worry about. Not worrying to much really has given me a bountiful sex life. I just do the math on these girls behaviour and how they have not caught anything and not a whole lot of mention on this forum. I know people who caught herpes and realize it is out there but the behavior that gave them that was worse than escorts.

 

[Nalgen]

I know people who caught herpes and realize it is out there but the behavior that gave them that was worse than escorts.

Can you elaborate some more on your last sentence? I don't quite understand what you mean exactly. Thank you.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Can you elaborate some more on your last sentence? I don't quite understand what you mean exactly. Thank you.

The two people I know who caught herpes were silly type of sex addicts who would pick up near homeless and such. Normally stds show although not always and spread if you do even care like mentally unhealthy to check symptoms. All I know is these girls have constant forms of unsafe sex and do not ever show signs but definately not a guarentee and some with medical training even do not worry totally and do not have anything. That is alot of different guys getting cim and even over time not getting anything.

 

[not impressed]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she doesn't kiss much though but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

Just go see deep throat Maggie , she will open your eyes to what a blow job is all about , but, just once , don’t make it a habit ..

 

[Hsbill]

If your junior is not sensitive from over jerking, then chances are you can't just go find a random MPA and get them to suck you til you come. Also, I am assumming that you got BBBJ because it is difficult to cum with CBJ even with the best of us. It is just usually to get you hard enough for CFS. Like you said, BJ is a job, so you have to find someone that are more into it then random MPAs. They would just get you hard and hump you or jerk you til you come as it is much easier.

If you want to really experience BBBJ/CIM and possibly swallow, you need to poke around a bit. There are some popular ones mentioned on this forum but they are high mileage and it is more fun to find a gem yourself (and keep quite about it). I would usually find someone that has some skills and promise, and then become a regular and she will be more than happy to satisfy you orally.

You also need to save up for the ladies. Jerking off before seeing them is good for fucking not good for sucking.

 

[Nalgen]

Just go see deep throat Maggie , she will open your eyes to what a blow job is all about , but, just once , don’t make it a habit ..

I hate to be negative in my own thread but back then she scammed me with a CBJ in person even though through text messages she quoted me the price for a BBBJ.

 

[Nalgen]

Also crossposting my post from another thread, more of my BJ experiences:

I tried a BBW once, she was a black chick, also the first black chick I paid for, usually I don't find black women as attractive as other women (but some are still quite good looking) for various reasons that I wont get into here (but hey it could be worse, Indians on average are the ugliest people, it is just so bad Canada is flooding the country with these people because our dear PM is useless), and as for the BBW part obviously most guys don't go for them as thinner women are better looking, but hey you only live once so I decided to give both things a try.

I went to see her because she had great BJ skills (from reading her reviews) and I wanted someone to give my dick a good sucking, and I think she would have been an excellent cocksucker because she genuinely enjoyed it, she also had so much suction that it slightly hurts my dick while she sucked (has anyone ever experienced this? Are black women used to sucking big black cocks so they suck harder? I am just guessing, can any black guys/girls chime in?), but the issue was I had trouble staying hard because it turns out I didn't find fat black chicks to be all that attractive.

It wasn't a complete waste of half an hour though, she was great to talk to and I even stayed behind for an extra 15 min after the session (since her next appointment was at 3 so there was time) to chat about random things while sitting on the couch in the condo's living room. She said crazy shit like I looked like a model LOL, I don't know if I should be confused or flattered. Anyways before I left she said to smack her fat ass for good luck and I did just that, it was a fun session overall and looking back it just not just all about the sex when it comes to visiting random women for it.

 

[not impressed]

I hate to be negative in my own thread but back then she scammed me with a CBJ in person even though through text messages she quoted me the price for a BBBJ.

Wasn’t Maggie

 

[Aibot]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she doesn't kiss much though but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

Stop jerking off so hard with a death grip

 

[Nalgen]

Wasn’t Maggie

I am 100% sure it was her, her 2nd floor apartment was in some shitty plaza (at Pharmacy and Lawrence that looked straight out of Afghanistan if I can exaggerate a bit) and she had a really girly voice, and her services matched up to her reviews (she did some "prostate massage" which was putting her gloved finger up my butt while she blew me in the chair next to the bed, I mean my butt is pretty tight cause I am guy right, so a standing prostate massage isn't going to get me off), she also let me facefuck her (honestly I wasn't into that kind of sex, and my dick wasn't even fully hard to due not feeling much with the condom on).

Anyways, I mean I could say she at least tried to provide good service, and when I left her apartment and looked at my texts when I pulled out my phone it was only then that I realized that she did say the price in the text was for BBBJ and not CBJ that she provided, so I was ripped off. Earlier on in the session when I first spoke to her in the room she said it was an extra $20 for a BBBJ and I cheaped out and didn't go for it, looking back maybe I should have just paid the extra $20, but I don't think that would have mattered anyways and I don't mean to sound sour when I write this but I didn't find her all that attractive facially and she didn't even take off her clothes so I couldn't get turned on even by her naked body, but it is not like that mattered much as she didn't let me turn up the lights to see her in the room.

So overall it was a waste of money and a waste of time to go visit her as she lived in Scarb and I had to take the Vic park bus up and it was a 2 hour round trip overall, it was a waste of a Saturday afternoon and when shit like this happens I question my life choices because I feel like I should be doing more in my life instead of seeing lame hookers in random plazas.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I am 100% sure was her, her 2nd floor apartment was in some shitty plaza (at Pharmacy and Lawrence that looked straight out of Afghanistan if I can exaggerate a bit) and she had a really girly voice, and her services matched up to her reviews (she did some "prostate massage" which was putting her gloved finger up my butt while she blew me in the chair next to the bed, I mean my butt is pretty tight cause I am guy right, so a standing prostate massage isn't going to get me off), she also let me facefuck her (honestly I wasn't into that kind of sex, and my dick wasn't even fully hard to due not feeling much with the condom on).

Anyways, I mean I could say she at least tried to provide good service, and when I left her apartment and looked at my texts when I pulled out my phone it was only then that I realized that she did say the price in the text was for BBBJ and not CBJ that she provided, so I was ripped off. Earlier on in the session when I first spoke to her in the room she said it was an extra $20 for a BBBJ and I cheaped out and didn't go for it, looking back maybe I should have just paid the extra $20, but I don't think that would have mattered anyways and I don't mean to sound sour when I write this but I didn't find her all that attractive facially and she didn't even take off her clothes so I couldn't get turned on even by her naked body, but it is not like that mattered much as she didn't let me turn up the lights to see her in the room.

So overall it was a waste of money and a waste of time to go visit her as she lived in Scarb and I had to take the Vic park bus up and it was a 2 hour trip overall, it was a waste of a Saturday afternoon and when shit like this happens I question my life choices because I feel like I should be doing more in my life instead of seeing lame hookers in random plazas.

They will tell you it is you like you have been yanking it too much which does happen a little but I am here to tell many of the spa girls give lousy head and it is giving clients low standards.

 

[stockup]

I went to Premier Spa last summer and I asked to see the lineup and picked a woman and went into the room. I showered and she came in some time later, and after an introduction it was off to the action.

Great looking woman, she doesn't kiss much though but she liked to suck dick it seems, so OK I can go with that.

But the problem is I have never cummed from a BJ before, mostly because my penis is not sensitive enough, mostly because I still masturbate daily, usually 1 to 3 times, it is hard not masturbate to be honest, as you know guys are horny all the time, but I try to keep the number of times I masturbate down to save it for the sex workers.

So she gives me a BJ and 30 minutes later I still haven't cum and my dick is starting getting sore so it is starting to soften (is this normal for a penis?) because it is just too sensitive due to 30 minutes of sucking, and later I couldn't even cum when she gave me a handjob until the time was up (but it is no big deal to me if I don't cum, I would like to cum but it doesn't always happen, especially if I seeing someone for the first time).

What is your opinion on the above and what can I do so that I can enjoy blowjobs more, preferably to the point where I can cum just from getting one?

You probably should switch to guys since you're a closeted homo

 

[snoopdoggie]

Also crossposting my post from another thread, more of my BJ experiences:

I tried a BBW once, she was a black chick, also the first black chick I paid for, usually I don't find black women as attractive as other women (but they are still quite good looking I will add) for various reasons that I wont get into here (but hey it could be worse, Indians on average are the ugliest people, it is just so bad Canada is flooding the country with these people because our dear PM is useless), and as for the BBW part obviously most guys don't go for them as thinner women are better looking, but hey you only live once so I decided to give both things a try.

I went to see her because she had great BJ skills (from reading her reviews) and I wanted someone to give my dick a good sucking, and I think she would have been an excellent cocksucker because she genuinely enjoyed it, she also had so much suction that it slightly hurts my dick while she sucked (has anyone ever experienced this? Are black women used to sucking big black cocks so they suck harder? I am just guessing, can any black guys/girls chime in?), but the issue was I had trouble staying hard because it turns out I didn't find fat black chicks to be all that attractive.

It wasn't a complete waste of half an hour though, she was great to talk to and I even stayed behind for an extra 15 min after the session (since her next appointment was at 3 so there was time) to chat about random things while sitting on the couch in the condo's living room. She said crazy shit like I looked like a model LOL, I don't know if I should be confused or flattered. Anyways before I left she said to smack her fat ass for good luck and I did just that, it was a fun session overall and looking back it just not just all about the sex when it comes to visiting random women for it.

Good point there about doing a hard Bbbj. I wondered why a black girl sucked me really hard.