I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he is amazing! He's the perfect guy in so many ways, I just want him to expand his horizons a bit, I guess. He's older than me and hasn't ever been with anyone else, but I have. He's not disappointing in bed, just a little passive and is all about routine. I don't want this to seem like an x-rated question, I'd just like some advice on how to improve our already great relationship. How can I help him try new things and be more authoritative without hurting his feelings? I'd appreciate all answers, but a guy's perspective would be awesome!