how do i introduce my boyfriend to my mum?

[ioanna (l)]

i've been with my boyfriend one month this wednesday gone and i think its time to introduce him to my family but im a bit scared as my mum is quite strict . i don't know how to tell her as she thinks im too young PLEASE HELPP

 

[David G]

Don't introduce him as your "boyfriend," introduce him as your friend. Tell him to be on his best behavior and to be polite. If he starts showing up around your house frequently, your family and your mom will figure out what he is.

 

[Kapacs]

Sa se imbrace frumos, sa fie politicos si sa se comporte cat mai responsabil si matur posibil. Mamele in general o sa treaca cu vederea daca sunt convinse ca baiatul este de treaba si potrivit pentru fata lor. Prima impresie conteaza cel mai mult asa ca ar trebui sa incerce sa o faca cat mai buna! Mult succes!

 

[Tristan]

Hi mom, here is my boyfriend !
He's great in bed !

 

[Kayla]

well before you bring him home and say guess what mum this is my boyfriend, make sure she knows you HAVE a boyfriend. make sure that you and your bf are on the same page about it all about when you started seeing eachother, tell her he WANTS to meet your family and just be mature about it. whining about how grown up you are won't help either, i learned from experience so if she says no then just say ok ma and keep it a secret a while longer.

 

[Diddy]

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Just tell her, if she doesn't accept it. Then forrget about her.

 

[James1343]

I think it's really brave of you to be the one introducing him to your family first - and considering after only one month! Good work so far.

Well maybe what you could do, is slowly introduce him to your family.
Like maybe have him over with some friends or a study session what not, so your mum will see him as a friend.

Then try and get into this frequent having him come over maybe like once a month or something. Then eventually your mum may see that he is a really nice, good guy and then when you say hes your boyfriend, then it won't be as much of a shock to her system.

good luck!

 

[Alihaa]

Well, ur relation is just one month, n U want to introduce ur bf to ur mom?!??!?!

This is nt da right time, wait for more 3-4 months...if u think he is da right man U can spend life with, Go tell ur mom, otherwise not..coz moms are always very much possessive abt der daughters...

 

[loraine]

1. bring boyfriend to the house

2. call mother

3. say "mom, this is ___ , my boyfriend."

4. SMILE!

 

[5th Horseman]

Best way to do it is just to do it. If you are over 18 there isn't a damn thing she can do about it. If you are under 18 then listen to your parents.