Everyone's been calling me a nickname that has almost nothing to do with my actual name for several years now. But now I'm going off to college, and meeting new people for the first time in ages (I live in a really small town. Know everybody.) So when I introduce myself, do I just say "I'm Jane Doe, but people call me Ashley"? Or is there something better to say?
Also, in class - my name would be on the class list as 'Jane Doe', so what do I say when a professor calls on me? (It's a small college, they learn the students' names, according to my friend who goes there). I figure if I say 'Ashley', then they'll have no idea why I'm there, there's no 'Ashley' on the list. But I don't respond very well to my real name any more, and would prefer that everyone call me by my nickname.
So I'm sure I'm making something pretty simple very complicated, but I just have no idea how to handle this. Thanks for any help!
Also, in class - my name would be on the class list as 'Jane Doe', so what do I say when a professor calls on me? (It's a small college, they learn the students' names, according to my friend who goes there). I figure if I say 'Ashley', then they'll have no idea why I'm there, there's no 'Ashley' on the list. But I don't respond very well to my real name any more, and would prefer that everyone call me by my nickname.
So I'm sure I'm making something pretty simple very complicated, but I just have no idea how to handle this. Thanks for any help!