How do you justify to yourself that you did nothing wrong.

[sgt snak3]

This is a question for those guys who are in relationship.

I mean i know for myself i always feel guitly after i have had a beautifull woman please me in some way or the other. And when i get in my vehicle and procede to drive home i always think. Fuck i am such an ass and i cant believe i spent ($170 at HFH in this case), I could of bought my companion a nice gift or bought her a car, if i just gave this up. And i think to my self this is the last time. However she always makes me go back to these places. And here is how i justify it. I think of somthing she did or did not do over the last week and i blame her for me spending my money at these places. Because hey i would never hit her and i just need to relieve my tension some how.
I got so upset at her the other day, i knew she made all that snow fall.

oh yes for those of you who think that you are in a relationship with an MPA this is not for you. And still screw you to so called mature expierenced members, who know it all.

 

[MattMCFC]

huh ???????

 

[Buffy]

Just a suggestion: your thoughts were good, but you might want to edit your post and remove the screw you comments from this thread. No one will give you a constructive response as long as you are being abusive.

 

[ravin_lunatic]

Hey ya silly bugger, we didn't make it snow either!

vvv

 

[heidi]

Hey buddy you're friggin weird.

 

[Karlie]

Whats with the derogatory comments to senior members? Thats gonna garner a lot advice.

 

[Lady Candy]

Just ignore junior, he probably gets excited when somebody replies to his gibberish!!

 

[kelsie g]

Might as well you're playin yourself.Obviously you keep going going back to the parlours for a reason.If it's tearing you up inside why dont you just cut your losses one way or the other.Get rid of the girl who is obviously not pleasing you and save the money you spend on her for parlour money or stop going to parlours.

PS Maybe your girlfriend goes to guy parlours....

 

[$$$]

Calm down man.

 

[Ella]

You should save the money you're currently spending in MPs! You badly need to come up with the tuition for a course in remedial English!

 

[Lauren Shafique]

If you feel guilty don't do it!! If you can't write english don't do it.

 

[TerraL]

We all may have different motivations for indulging in this hobby, but if you're looking for someone to take responsibility for it, go find a mirror.

 

[alcor69_69]

Although I can relate I feel you do not deserve to be taken seriously by the rest of us.
Never mind remedial english classes Pagan, this guy is in need of both anger management corses and a pychotherapist. Save your money pal, take our advice and then maybe, just maybe we can talk.



PS. Its never too late for an apology.

Harry Testes

 

[Danni A]

If anything, you guys should feel sorry for us, girls, when encountering various breeds of men.

Pretty much, you all developed a dislike for the comments of this massageplanet.netite, now imagine spending a half an hour with a person like that!

...and then they come here and write about us less than favourably...

 

[blueskywoo819]

might as well get a new girlfriend...who likes verbal abuse...U just need a few more posts to get promoted to Senior Member...

 

[MommaYoga]

Seriously I'm married and have 16 children and I feel guilty sometimes too, so here's my advice to Might as Well:

E verybody and anybody feels guilty every once in
a while. Although you haven't done anything wrong,
t ry and take a chill pill.

S o, you're girlfriend makes you angry and hot as
h ell sometimes, its only natural to have heated and
i ntense arguments with her. The only problem with
t hat is it shouldn't reach the point of physical abuse.

M aybe you have too much on your mind. What I do
i f I'm angry at my wife is take a bazillion dollars from my account a nd
g o out at night and spend it on myself at SCs for dances. And
h ead over to some late night MPs and pay for all the extras and
t ips that I could afford.

A nyway, Might as Well you've got my deep
s ympathy for all the pain you suffer.

W e should all be sympathetic to this poor guy, and I mean
e veryone. In the heat of it all we quickly judged and
l ost track that MIGHT is only human. He wants to be
l oved!

! Cant we all just get along?

 

[Conrad]

How do you justify to yourself that you did nothing wrong.

The line between right and wrong is very transparent, so... if you want it to be nothing wrong.... it's soo many reason to be.

so.. Might as Well, ask yourslef..... !!

 

[Moonlightheaven]

This is about the funniest thread I think I've read!

The guy was obviously joking - and nicely done! (no one - no one - actually believes that his girlfriend made the snow fall)

I'm constantly amazed at how this written medium allows so much room for misinterpretation.

As for justifying it, it's clearly a fertile question - these types of questions get all kinds of passionate responses. The best advice I heard anyone offer was simple: if it fucks you up, stop doing it. Kind of like gambling, smoking, drugs, alcohol, etc. Of course it's hard to give up - addictions are like that.

 

[G-man]

I have sat here and read throught this whole thread..thinking about each individual response before composing my own.

For Alanis - guys like this are far and, thankfully few between, when I am thinking about visiting a particular MPA I look for all the info I can find in her. If I find ten good reviews and one negative I will go with the ten good ones, as long as they are not from the same person
The negative review that a client as this may post will have little effect on my decision.

For Might as Well - If you treat your girlfriend/wife the way you treat the Senior Members of this board then it is no suprise to me that you need to frequent the MP's because you probably aren't getting much of anything at home. The individuals sis not become Senior Members just by some luck of the draw. They got their because of their knowledge and experience and their willingness to share it with others. I do not know if this analogy will work for you but think of them as your wise grandfather who is willing to sit down with you and share his life's adventures - if you listen you will learn. My apologies to all the Senior Members - I am sure you don't want to be thought of as Grandfathers, yet you all are wise in your ways so therefore I'm sure you will understand the point I am trying to make.

I have read several of your posts Might as Well and I have to agree with other posters---------you really need more help than a MPA can provide.