Ok so i messed up bad on this one!!! 10 years ago i was engaged to this man and I got cold feet rahter than just talking to him I told him to leave... about a month or so after i told him to leave i found out i was pregnant and got even more scared.... a few months later i met another man who was willing to take care of me and the baby.... now forward 10 years my sons father wants to be a part of his life he has always asked about him but ive never been willing to let him in.... and before you all ask he is not a dead beat father it was all my fault