me and my partner have been together for over 3 years, in the begging of our relationship my family was not okay with that, and due to the problems that I had with them I had to move in with him to USA for 6 months then we came back to my country and we started our life here. After 3 years and 2 months I started talking to my family, I was very scared with what they would say to me, but it seems like they all don't pay too much attention to the fact that I am gay and that I am with my partner, they already respect that. now I wanna go and see them, they live around 200 miles away from where we live, but I would like to go there by myself, I don't want introduce my partner (yet) because I don't think this is the right time, I know my mother and she will totally freak out, now my partner is getting upset because he doesn't agree with me on this, am I right or wrong for not introducing him to my family yet?