Keep PM's private!

[HaleyJo]

Seeing that the post by jk_flip_flop has been deleted due to disclosing a private PM to him with some explicit details, to all massageplanet.netites, please understand that if there is a sacred code of conduct on this review board, it is never to disclose private PM's on the board. In addition, even more importantly, do not disclose private PM's to the MPA herself that it is referring to. I know of a few fellow massageplanet.netites that have said they have been burned this way. massageplanet.netite A sent massageplanet.netite B a PM about explicit happenings in his session about MPA#1. massageplanet.netite B then told MPA#1 what massageplanet.netite A said in his PM to him. Unfortunately, MPA#1 knew massageplanet.netite A's handle so the next time massageplanet.netite A saw MPA#1, she lambasted him and now he's not allowed to see her again.

So remember, PM's are to be kept private!!!!!!!!!

 

[jackies]

Hey Punkdt...

Really good point you have made. PMs should always be kept private and off the public board...it is called a PRIVATE message for a reason.....

However, we all have to be careful with whom (or is it who or does anyone care anymore???) we pm sensitive information.

In your scenario, seems that massageplanet.netite A made a mistake in giving info to someone who did not respect his privacy. massageplanet.netite B seems to be a jerk----(probably said....this guy massageplanet.netite A said that he brought you flowers and candy and you gave him bbbjtc for $40, why can't I get the same deal). Not only that why does mpa#1 know massageplanet.netite A's handle???????

TODAY's massageplanet.net LESSON
1. PM are private messages and should be kept private
2. Be careful with whom you share sensitive information
3. NEVER expect the same services as another client...YMMV
4. Do not reveal your massageplanet.netITE handle to mpa
5. Don't bullshit too much about your sessions with your favorite
mpa...it might catch up with you..

 

[Aurora150]

Mr. Punkdt,

I mean no disrespect, but I cannot feel outrage and/or sympathy that hobbyist #2 betrays the confidence of hobbyist #1, when hobbyist #1 is betraying the confidence of the MPA. (...it would appear my hypocricy has some limits after all...).

PMs are just messages between two people - no different than letters, email, or even conversations. The extent that you can "expect" privacy should go no farther than the extent that you can trust your counterparty. Said another way: maybe we all should be more careful about what we say... AND to whom we say it.

And, having said that, maybe we all could expect a little more in terms of discretion if we in turn offered it as well....

Best regards,

F.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Can someone PM me on what happened in the Jk flip flop thread....?

...did I miss something...whose pm did he showed

thanks

 

[hobojo]

LOL

massageplanet.net love drama, now i've seen everything.....

 

[Onya]

thanks for the pm's guys...


generally pm's like that shouldn't be shown unless some is being a total jackass by being verbally abusive....

 

[Smooch Bat]

....and then only forwarded to a moderator.

 

[Serendipity2]

...do you mind if I forward a pm from your mom...goob

 

[ragapple]

Please do. There has been problems with Mom spamming here on massageplanet.net....

 

[Pompal 09.]

LOL

 

[Kenneth]

MPAs generally don't like it when we communicate session details beyond the non-descript praise we spew on the public board.

As soon as I pm Mr. Smegma-wart that Poolie gave me a bbbjtc, then poor Poolie's got to deal with Smegma's oral expectations. I recently had a massage from an MPA who offered me a little bbbj pleasure who specifically requested that I not disclose that mileage item b/c she often has to deal with dirty guys with "drippy dicks" & doesn't want them expecting her to go down on them - pm me for her name

So what do we do? What can we talk about in pm? For me its all about reciprocity, if you're gonna share your legit info with me then I'll do the same. If the MPA has asked me not to say anything & I agreed, then I won't say shit, I'm not gonna burn her for doing me a solid - pun intended

 

[Yeehawfreesex]

...it's more like shilling of her services....and the mouth on her...

...no wonder you grew up to be a massageplanet.net Moderator...that likes eating 'pie'....

 

[mrs. holden caulfield.]

I can assure everyone that Goober's Mom needs no shilling....

 

[Lutzkrieg]

Am I the only one who finds it sad that a guy with 18 posts has to point this out to us? That's like going to the cheerleader in high school - "Hey Barbie - Joey said you blew him when you guys went out last week - will you do the same to me?" Think how far that's going to get you. massageplanet.net is no different than locker room talk. And nothing ever leaves the locker room. If it does, you're off the team!

 

[Jocelyn L]

I am a veteran hobbyist who has recently changed handles as my first post indicated last month. So don't always jump to conclusions about newbies.