Yngwie Malmsteen
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Hi everyone. Basically, my girlfriend introduced me once to a group of 6 friends. we went to dunking doughnuts, had a coffee then went. The thing is, now she doesn't like the idea of me meeting them again, especially her best friend, who was on holiday at the time I met her other friends. She just says it isn't right, because they don't have boyfriends, and would only feel comfortable with a double date. Also, I am very popular with her friends, I have seen her talk with her tutor on skype, when she has stayed round, and they constantly ask about me, and all love me. Every time I ask to meet with her best friend, she says its not good, and she doesn't like it, or they are busy.,, etc. Also, she gets defensive, saying 'what, do you like her or something?'
This isn't a joke, I feel she is very insecure about this subject. She wouldn't even introduce me to her skype english tutor. When she was talking to her, even though round my apartment, she told me to not sttract attention, as she cant know im here. It's like, the sort of thing you do when you are embarrassed, but I know it's not that! I am almost a celebrity with her friends, but I never meet them! So is it just because she's seriously insecure, and thinks every female I get to know closely, I will find attractive? I seriously love her, but how do I help her with these insecurities...~?
I really really want to meet her friends, because she spends nearly every day with them at uni!!!!!! That's why it's important to me. Or is it normal to not introduce your friends to your partner, unless they have a partner also? Is this really normal behaviour?
This isn't a joke, I feel she is very insecure about this subject. She wouldn't even introduce me to her skype english tutor. When she was talking to her, even though round my apartment, she told me to not sttract attention, as she cant know im here. It's like, the sort of thing you do when you are embarrassed, but I know it's not that! I am almost a celebrity with her friends, but I never meet them! So is it just because she's seriously insecure, and thinks every female I get to know closely, I will find attractive? I seriously love her, but how do I help her with these insecurities...~?
I really really want to meet her friends, because she spends nearly every day with them at uni!!!!!! That's why it's important to me. Or is it normal to not introduce your friends to your partner, unless they have a partner also? Is this really normal behaviour?