Open Thread - BBFS - To Condom or Not... That is the question? vote to view results

[OpenPost]

here is a thread that I will ask the mods about.
I am interested in what the relevance in using a condom when seeing a MPA. I thought that by having a open thread and allowing the option of users to post without their handle would also be helpful. I would encourage both customers and mpas to participate. To post to the poll it requires using your handle.

To view results requires participation

After I receive an ok from the mods, I will post the password to allow anonymous posting. If it becomes stupid I will ask it to be deleted.

 

[Sybarite]

Although BBBJ is lower risk than BBFS there are still also all sorts of very real risks associated with BBBJ and other types of oral sex as well. Why do so many guys who think it would be crazy to engage in BBFS have no problem at all with BBBJs?

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[JEG]

Although BBBJ is lower risk than BBFS there are still also all sorts of very real risks associated with BBBJ and other types of oral sex as well. Why do so many guys who think it would be crazy to engage in BBFS have no problem at all with BBBJs?

https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

Should we include a response for BBBJ in spas?
I think that it would be a good idea.

Just to let you know, I may start from scratch if admin is good with this idea.

 

[Ursus]

I would rather eat from a restaurant dumpster bin than engage in BBFS with an escort.


This would be a qualified YES for me:





This would never be a YES for me:

 

[playfulfun]

I have been offered BBFS several times in the last year or so and only once in the years before that.
It has become more prevalent recently.
I guess the girls are trying to entice you with different options.
Last year I had a session with a well known MPA who got very upset when I suggested I put a condom on.
She was on top and was lowering herself on me.
Stopped her just in time, luckily I was thinking with my big head.
BBFS is too dangerous for all involved including everybody who follows.
Wrap it up and play safe.

 

[slipslidealways]

This is insane, why would you even think about it. With BBFS the question is not if you will contract something it is when... then your life will change forever. Why take the chance, be smart always be protected.

 

[Baddkle]

I look at it this way.
Even when I was dating regular girls before marriage, I would only have unprotected sex after we both had an STD test and she was on the pill.

 

[felixami]

i'm calling u out on this one
a DUMPSTER?
5-day old
partly eaten
jelly donuts
soaked with rotten sauce
from a swiss chalet meal
mixed with a decaying burger and
3-day old caramel from a mcdonald's sundae?

give me bbfs every time

mpa's can wash with soap and water
no broken skin on the penis
wash up afterwards

but digesting rotting decaying food is
deadly!

 

[Ursus]

Felixami,

I guarantee you I would eat from a dumpster before I would engage in BBFS with a sex-worker.

Eeeeeewwwwwwww to the sex-worker with some one else's cum inside her pussy as I am banging her. That's just nasty and risky.

The only thing that might save me is the fact that I don't last anymore than 2 minutes in FS, so I might get away without catching anything because of the short time.

 

[Sybarite]

This is insane, why would you even think about it. With BBFS the question is not if you will contract something it is when... then your life will change forever. Why take the chance, be smart always be protected.

Why does no one give this same advice for BBBJs, DATY, etc? Doesn't the same principle hold true?

It seems like most posters who are horrified at the idea of BBFS have no worries at all about BBBJ, DATY, and so on.

Doesn't really make a lot of rational sense given the significant risks for all these activities... why is one the end of the world and the others a comparative non-issue and concern?

 

[Gulag107]

There are guys who routinely speed, weave in and out of traffic, drive drunk or without seat belts....some people you simply cannot reach. The ladies who are paid cum dumps are another story.

 

[Ursus]

Regarding seatbelts and the risks, there is a greater risk of injury in a low-speed crash if you are wearing a seatbelt versus not wearing a seat belt. In a high-speed crash, the risks are reversed.

I never wear a seatbelt when driving in the city, too risky toward injury.

I have read reports with the following type of excerpts many times over. Plus, I know from personal experience, that seatbelts cause injury during impact at low speeds.

'The belt has very little if any deterring effect on the cervical spine as the head and neck continue forward motion. Even the addition of a shoulder harness will not relieve but will only increase the forces which must be absorbed by the head and neck, although such a harness may prevent contact injuries."12 Seat belts save lives by preventing occupants from going through the windshield, but they contribute to the neck injury.'

The Office of the Chief Scientist (London), Department of Health and Social Security, had this comment regarding seat belts in 1985: "We predicted an increase in the case of two injuries: sprains of the neck and fractures of the sternum. Both were confirmed. The other apparent increase in a major injury which was not predicted was abdominal injuries of organs other than the kidney and bladder."

Clemens and Burrow20 report that any shoulder restraint mechanism in front-end collision increases the degree of cervical flexion, with potential for injury.

I always try to explain this to police officers and judges when I go to court for seat-belt violations, but they never recognize the obvious, that seat belts in low speed collisions cause more harm than good.

 

[Gulag107]

I balled an mpa in Miami. She was insanely dirty, loved being degraded. I stopped short when she asked me to piss in her mouth after I fucked her anally without a rubber. I was stupid. She was drunk and stupid.

Was she drunk and stupid enough to not collect her compensation fee?

 

[felixami]

herpes creeps me out
that is scary to think about!
bbfs is indeed risky

 

[Ursus]

Slag, I agree with your post.

The news always presents whores as victims. They aren't. They are traders of sex, just like a stock broker trades shares in a company.

Whores are ridiculous in how they spend their money - constant nights out, dinners, expensive purses, gambling. I can't stand when I see a whore talk about traveling the world and going to shopping malls. It turns alot of guys away, but she is too focused on trying to look like a winner. If they would fucking save a bit of money, they would be better off. Then, they always talk of quitting, but never do until their market value drops right off the cliff.

 

[Sybarite]

herpes creeps me out
that is scary to think about!
bbfs is indeed risky

You can get herpes from BBBJ, DATY, rimming, and DFK. Why is BBFS the big sole concern?

https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

 

[JEG]

You can get herpes from BBBJ, DATY, rimming, and DFK. Why is BBFS the big sole concern?

https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

Holy Fuck batman!

You can get Herpes from shotin' hoops?

 

[Ursus]

Everyone has herpes. Some people show signs, most don't. Most people get herpes from close contact with family members, such as a kiss goodbye during Christmas visit. Simple contact passes herpes. We all have herpes.

 

[escapefromstress]

You can get herpes from BBBJ, DATY, rimming, and DFK. Why is BBFS the big sole concern?

https://smartsexresource.com/sites/default/files/Oral-Sex-Table-v3.png

Thanks for posting this. There used to be a real Health Nurse who worked at a clinic, that posted answers to questions on the perb review board out west. She's the one who posted the link to their website, so I trust it is accurate information. https://smartsexresource.com/

 

[Kw1389]

Everyone has herpes. Some people show signs, most don't. Most people get herpes from close contact with family members, such as a kiss goodbye during Christmas visit. Simple contact passes herpes. We all have herpes.

Your basic cold sore is a form of herpes