Refused her advances

[Mebad2018]

Has anyone ever refused a HE that was offered? I have. If Im not into her or too expensive.

 

[luvsluvsmassage]

too expensive, yes.

 

[Qster]

Bad massage, bad vibe, too rushed, too expensive.

 

[welldunn66]

Been there, done that. Too expensive then no.

 

[ObiWanPotato]

I refused Lena. her medical conspiracy rant was not a turn on...

 

[brownguy1234]

Absolutely have .

 

[brownguy1234]

Declined Cici/Amy at Breeze . Way too talkative while massage and way to personal questions turned me off big time with her.

 

[needarub]

I hate negotiating. Especially if they are new to me and/or start with a silly high quote that doesn't return to reasonable quickly. It's a mood killer that rapidly leads to declining extras.

 

[Spexx]

I refused Lena. her medical conspiracy rant was not a turn on...

So wish I had!

 

[Spexx]

Surprisingly, I have never refused. I’ve even paid more than my comfort zone, not because I was afraid to refuse but because I enter these places with a certain expectation. I do however have a limit to what I’ll pay but I like to think of myself like a responsible gambler. I pay to play with the expectation that I will spend no more than what I brought in and leave. Sometimes I’m happier than than others, and sometimes I thank the stars I got out alive, but each experience be it good or horribly bad teaches me a bit more about what I really want and where/how to find it.
Sorry, this doesn’t help to discourage the crappy providers but I assuredly make as many aware as I can to avoid those poor visits.

 

[bih1995]

Refused Cindy (Strathcona spa), too expensive

 

[Wills_willie]

Refused Cindy (Strathcona spa), too expensive

I didn't refuse, BUT, I won't go back. Generally I'm like Spexx, don't refuse or walk out, unless I get a bad feeling when I do a walk in, ie fake Sunny.

 

[Mebad2018]

Refused Cindy (Strathcona spa), too expensive

Me too.

 

[Romero001]

Refused a few times, has to be a connection, even if it’s slight. The connection is quickly lost if they start off with a ridiculous amount, I just say no.

 

[Rubmegood]

I hate negotiating.

Amen to that! A total buzz kill for me when they stop on the flip and start talking prices. That's why I like Sunny and LauraEdmonton- Prices up front before starting. And XP/TT where there's no negotiations at all and you tip what you want and they are thrilled!

 

[getitdone]

wanted too refuse twice but still paid but i never went back to them. one told me a ridiculous price for hj after done. i dont remeber if i paid full amount. the other was a lady i loved seeing . she did hj for free in beginning , then did for reasonable amount. than last time i saw her after covid she wanted double the price of massage on top of a tip. almost lost it on her but paid and vowed never too return . lesson learned there was get price first

 

[Rubmegood]

wanted too refuse twice but still paid but i never went back to them. one told me a ridiculous price for hj after done. i dont remeber if i paid full amount. the other was a lady i loved seeing . she did hj for free in beginning , then did for reasonable amount. than last time i saw her after covid she wanted double the price of massage on top of a tip. almost lost it on her but paid and vowed never too return . lesson learned there was get price first

H'mm! Maybe there's more to this type of behavior than we think. (Uh-oh! Here I go speculating again...) Maybe they want to 'clean up their act' and get rid of us horn-dogs by doubling the prices of extra's. Or maybe it's more personal- all of a sudden they don't like one customer so they double prices or treat him like shit so he never comes back. And then they have clients like Bigbill who are built like a brick shit-house and hung like a stallion who they treat like royalty, willingly provide a wide menu and cheap prices (Just teasin', Bill!)??

 

[YEGBoi]

It's their way of saying no without offending anyone.

 

[bigbill]

LOL!!

I do seem to never have ambivalent service. I either have a great connection, or none at all.