This is only the second time I've paid for sex, so obviously I'm still a beginner. Made lots of mistakes, which resulted in some pretty bad sex and wasted money. Anyway, its been very quiet on these Japan forums, so I thought I would contribute. Found myself in Tokyo on a business trip, and decided to check out the scene in Kabuki-cho. I've read here about how tough it can be for gaijin to pay for sex these days. But I also read (also on these forums I think) that its a bit easier for non-Japanese Asians than for caucasians or other non-Asian ethnicities. I'm US-born Asian American, so I thought I would give it a try.
Almost instantly upon entering Kabuki-cho, I was offered "free drink" tickets to strip clubs. After reading the warnings on these forums, I knew to steer clear of those ripoffs. Another man spoke to me in Japanese (assuming I was Japanese). I don't speak a lick of Japanese, and told him so. He communicated to me in some broken English about clubs, so I think he also was trying to pull me into a strip club or hostess bar. About 100 ft. later, another man greeted me in Japanese. When I told him I didn't speak the language, he responded in good English, asking me where I was from. Then he offered "You want sex? You want fucking?", to which I responded in the affirmitive. He offered fucking for 20,000 yen (30,000 yen for "priority" girl). I tried to talk him down, but he could only offer "blowjob" for 12,000 yen. I agreed to the "fucking".
He took me around the block, into a building occupied on the ground floor by a bar. We went up an elevator to the 3rd floor, and he knocked on a unmarked door. Inside was a dingy, dimly lit, small room, with 4 curtained booths. He showed me a lady, and asked me if she was ok. The woman was a bit over-the-hill, in her 40's, but not too bad looking. And she had a tight little body that looked like it would be fun to fuck. I should have asked to see others, but it was pretty quiet in there and I didn't see any other girls, so I'm not sure if I had many choices. I hastily agreed and forked over the cash. I figured what the lady lacked in looks and youth, she could make up in experience. I was wrong. After I undressed, she proceeded to give me a lame "massage" (if you can even call it that). Mostly to fill the time until the shower was open. Then I washed off in a small bathroom. I was a bit sketched out by the place, so I checked that my wallet was still there while she showered.
The lady came back and had me flip over onto my back. She had not done much to arouse me at this point, so I was still totally limp. I fondled her nice tiny ass, and cute little tits. She tried to stroke me, but didn't really seem to know how to do it properly. She held the sides of my cock between her thumb and index finger, jerking in a very non-arousing manner. This went on for several minutes, with no response from my dick. She became a bit embarrassed, and gestured if I wanted her to suck it. She wanted 3000 more yen for sucking. I gave her 2000 yen, which was all I had. After putting a condom on my limp cock, she wiped it off with some wet naps (I guess to remove the lube before sucking me). I'm pretty sure this was a terrible idea, as I think most those wet naps use alcohol, which could damage the condom. Anyway, she sucked me (which she did pretty well) and made me hard. The lady proceeded to lay on the massage table and spread her legs. I got on top of her and began humping. She wasn't much for changing positions, and just kind of layed there and moaned a little. At this point, I pretty much just wanted to get it over with. I did my business, and got out of there. I paid for an hour, but I only used 30-40 minutes. At least I didn't have to rush to catch the last subway.
All in all, it was a disappointing experience. It took me only a few minutes to find sex in Shinjuku, but it wasn't any good. I realize I shouldn't complain too much, as much of it was my own fault. I should have held out for a better girl, or left and found a different place. Minimum, I should have haggled more and gotten the price down. I bet the "walking away" tactic would have gotten the guy to lower the price, since for him a reduced fee is better then none at all. Live and learn, and I hope others can learn from it, too.