Hi gents, I'm new to the spa world and I've been doing a lot of research for the past few days. I still have some questions and I'm hoping someone would be willing to help clarify.
1. If I visit a semi-legit place let's say, do I need to do anything in particular proactively (flirting, touching, straight up asking) to let them know that I'm there for extras? Or can I literally just shut up and the girl will bring up the topic of extras at some point? To give more context I'm in my mid 20s, not ugly and have a fit body, I'm also a working professional and a very proper/polite person. I hope I don't come off like I'm bragging but all that is to say I don't look like someone who goes to massage parlours to get HEs, I'm afraid they'll just give me a legit massage thinking that's all I wanted.
2. Related to 1 but I know girls will do some "teasing" pre-flip. So how do they know whether I want extras (therefore I should be teased) or I only want legit massage before the flip? (My understanding is the specific extras you get is only confirmed after the flip)
3. If you walk-in without making an appointment, how does the "girl picking" process go? Would they show you pictures or have them line up in front of you for you to pick? The latter sounds very awkward to me lol.
4. When you go into the massage room, what are you supposed to do exactly? I think you're supposed to strip naked, shower, then lie on the bed face down, all while the girl is outside the room? Are you supposed to cover your ass up with the towel? (I've heard covered = asking for legit massage and not covered = asking for extras). I've also heard stories that seem to deviate from this script where the girl hop in the shower with them and stuff so idk how I'm supposed to know what to do exactly.
5. Do the girls usually strike up conversations with you? Or will they only talk if you strike up a conversation?
6. From the reviews I've read, it seems like most people just get a BS upfront, but in the process venture into other things like DFK, DATY, PS, russian. I'm curious how that works exactly? Do you ask explicitly or do you just keep testing her boundaries until she says no?
7. I don't see any mentions of foot jobs. Is FJ on the same level of HJ as in all girls are ok with it and the tips are on the same level? If I ask for both HJ and FJ would that cost extra?
8. As I'm new I plan to start slow and just get a sensual massage with a HJ. Curious if anyone have good recommendations on where to go in Markham/Richmond Hill area for someone like me who's a first timer and would prefer some guidance along the way? I like young, attractive, easygoing girls that love what they do and does their job with passion, preferably not shy since I'll be the shy one lol.
TIA gents!
1. If I visit a semi-legit place let's say, do I need to do anything in particular proactively (flirting, touching, straight up asking) to let them know that I'm there for extras? Or can I literally just shut up and the girl will bring up the topic of extras at some point? To give more context I'm in my mid 20s, not ugly and have a fit body, I'm also a working professional and a very proper/polite person. I hope I don't come off like I'm bragging but all that is to say I don't look like someone who goes to massage parlours to get HEs, I'm afraid they'll just give me a legit massage thinking that's all I wanted.
2. Related to 1 but I know girls will do some "teasing" pre-flip. So how do they know whether I want extras (therefore I should be teased) or I only want legit massage before the flip? (My understanding is the specific extras you get is only confirmed after the flip)
3. If you walk-in without making an appointment, how does the "girl picking" process go? Would they show you pictures or have them line up in front of you for you to pick? The latter sounds very awkward to me lol.
4. When you go into the massage room, what are you supposed to do exactly? I think you're supposed to strip naked, shower, then lie on the bed face down, all while the girl is outside the room? Are you supposed to cover your ass up with the towel? (I've heard covered = asking for legit massage and not covered = asking for extras). I've also heard stories that seem to deviate from this script where the girl hop in the shower with them and stuff so idk how I'm supposed to know what to do exactly.
5. Do the girls usually strike up conversations with you? Or will they only talk if you strike up a conversation?
6. From the reviews I've read, it seems like most people just get a BS upfront, but in the process venture into other things like DFK, DATY, PS, russian. I'm curious how that works exactly? Do you ask explicitly or do you just keep testing her boundaries until she says no?
7. I don't see any mentions of foot jobs. Is FJ on the same level of HJ as in all girls are ok with it and the tips are on the same level? If I ask for both HJ and FJ would that cost extra?
8. As I'm new I plan to start slow and just get a sensual massage with a HJ. Curious if anyone have good recommendations on where to go in Markham/Richmond Hill area for someone like me who's a first timer and would prefer some guidance along the way? I like young, attractive, easygoing girls that love what they do and does their job with passion, preferably not shy since I'll be the shy one lol.
TIA gents!