And I don't mean this in a random pessimistic way, I just mean from overall experience. The asian postings, they are not ran by the girl. Your post in the OP makes it sound like you think its the girl who is saying these things, but its not. Asian dudes run the ads and they run multiple ads for multiple different locations in any given area. When you respond to an ad and say you are coming, the guy then texts the girl what you are going to pay and how long you stay.
Half these ads will say kissing and DFK available but 90% of Asian incalls I've been to, the girl will not let you kiss them because she has no idea what the ad is for her. You can still have a decent time at these places, but only if you are okay with having someone to lay there and take your missionary and doggy pounding. Anything else is an illusion