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[Pompal 09.]

Thanks KLR. It sounds like Acuna is where I will be heading then in a couple of weeks.
Thanks again,
TheTrooper

 

[Zilla Saurus]

Well your correct Tropper, what the girls told you, most of the girls have gone to other places such as TJ,REY, AND MNTY. Most of the guys are Nat. Mexicans and few
Americans. I spoke to owner of the taco stand next to PG, he informed me that business was bad. As for the girls not as many like the old days.

 

[Troy]

Your posts are hilarious, Spazmid. You ought to write a book. I'm not into mongering but I enjoy reading this forum. I've been married for two years to a Colombiana and still look forward to getting her in the sack.

 

[Sam Taylor]

...But I run into guys all the time who have been out there a lot longer than I have. And I apprenticed under old sailors who had been travelling the world on the Navy's ticket for 30 years. They just about knew it all. Of course, I also hung out with guys my age, and we got to learn some of it the hard way.

Before it's all over with, you may put me in the shade as far as mongering savvy. I was married once for three years, when I was very young, and I've had a few live-in GF's for varying lengths of time, none exceeding a couple of years. I have a grown son from my marriage and that's enough for me.

I look at it this way...some guys need a full-time woman because they can't stand to be by themselves. I like to spend a lot of alone, I have a lot of things I'm into, and someone yammering in my ear and constantly interrupting me to come and do something for them is irritating.

Sure, I would like to have a young, pretty girl in the house to do things for me, but she would have to do what I tell her to do and that ain't gonna happen, not in the long run. But I pay the cost to be the boss. If she supports me, then she can be the boss, but I'm not holding my breath on that one.

They all change, just like Filipinas and other foreign girls after a few years. I don't want a woman anywhere near my age and all set in her ways, and I hate the bullshit I get when I'm seen with someone way less than half my age. Of course, that doesn't alter my behavior at all.

I had one girl who did obey, she was a real submissive, into the lifestyle. She would have gotten down on her hands and knees and cleaned the toilet with a toothbrush, naked. She would have stood on one foot for three days if I told her to. I could have dragged her down to the park by the hair of her head, and let all my friends bukkake and piss on her, and she wouldn't have protested. She would have loved the humiliation and the attention.

But I could not deliver the level of abuse that she needed on a regular basis, she knew that I was only half-hearted catering to her needs, and it wasn't enough... so it didn't work out. And she could no more be cured of her illness than a drug addict or a child molester. She wanted a beating and I could only manage a moderate spanking.

The intimacy of a steady woman is great, until she gets tired of sex and starts screeching at you. Some women lose all desire after childbirth, though I can say that the sex was the only good thing in my marriage, and there's a lot more to marriage than sex.

My wife was stunning, she left a trail of whiplash behind her wherever she went, both men and women. She was so perfect, she did not even own any makeup. But even then, I was starting to fantasize about tall blonde Swedish women toward the last (she was small and Japanese/Mexican).

My wife had a terrible temper. When I pissed her off, which was frequent, she would stand on her tiptoes and scream in my face, "FUCK YOU FUCK YOU FUCK YOU!!!!" Sometimes I could not help but laugh at all 98 pounds of her and that would make her even angrier. I surprised her with a spanking once, I held her down and did it, but all that got me was sucker-punched later on. She did it several times. Several several. She could hit.

But have you heard this saying..."Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy who's tired of fucking her", or something like that. Sad but true. It's our nature.

They say a woman wants one man to fulfill all her needs, while a man wants all women to fulfill his one need. True, dat.

They say that after six years, a lesbian couple has almost stopped having sex. I don't think it lasts that long with the average man and woman. There are many couples who have a happy lifelong marriage, but half of marriages end in divorce. As they say, different strokes.

So am I unhappy that I am a monger instead of a happy husband and father of a large family? I don't know, I don't think about it. I am what I am. It has it's good and bad points.

"Life is something that happens to you while you're making other plans".

 

[thecharleslloyd]

And so its happening like I said the girls have gotten greedy and turned into bitches and now they are losing big because of it.

 

[LabGrrl .com]

Thanks for reply and update KLR. How's the girls down in NL now? I was in Acuna back in April and alot of the girls were telling me that they were up from NL cause it was so slow down there. No Americans, all Mexicans and business was bad. I don't ever bring anything across with me (sharp objects, etc) so it doesn't bother me about the cops searching every car, I get a cab at the bridge at NL anyhow.
Thanks,
TheTrooper

 

[freebsd-unix.sg]

Dahm Spaz I cant say that I will ever have your mongering experience but I think I am well on my way. At the begining of a lifetime of mongering I am not sure if it is a blessing or curse that I know this is what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life. Marriage and being tied down just dont hold any appeal for me yet there is something to be said for the intamacy of a steady woman. Im sure I like things the way I have them now. I see my friends that are married and to me it looks like a living hell. I allways wanted to get older so I didnt have to answer to anybody like anyone, but to finally come of age and then get married and have to answer to a spouse it just dont make since to me. Well I figure there was a time in your life you had these same thoughts.Im just wondering how you feel you faired making the desicions you have in your life.

 

[Talltail]

Just got back, the only problem I had was getting into BT the police are searching
every car going in. If you are drive do not carry in any prono “pics”, tools with
a blade, or alcoholic beverages. Had a great time.

 

[moving on]

Spazmid,
I'm from Garland. I can't believe you'd talk about Garland cops that way, although I can't say what you said is untrue. You forgot to mention that Garland is home of the Fighten Garland Owls. State champs in 63, and 64. Two years in a row, Spazmid. I'm disappointed in you, Spazmid.

 

[Nadz46]

I'm planning on heading back to either NL or Acuna in August. Anybody have any updates on NL? I know its been bad down there and I'm trying to decide whether to go back to Acuna or head back to NL? Any updates would be great ly appreciated?
Thanks,
The Trooper

 

[Ahead by a Century]

"Originally Posted by Arecho Monger
Spaz Stop it with all the science Fiction tales."


I don't mean to be hyper-critical, but, science fiction usually covers endeavers way in the future dealing with changes in the social, economic and science norms from what we have today.

There was none of that in what I saw in the post. Also, I didn't see any fiction.

Just my 2 cents

 

[ajtheactress]

If the NL cops disobey orders or go over the line, they will find themselves in the river. Tourism is very important to NL, the state of Tamaulipus, and Mexico in general. Without it, they are dead in the water.

Does that mean that no one gets fucked over by the NL police? Of course not. Many do. But we have a game we play up here. We speed thru Garland, a suburb of Dallas, and when we get stopped, we refuse to sign the ticket. Anyone who can get thru the arrest and the jail processing without getting the shit beat out of them, wins the pot.

I'm being facetious, but you get the idea. Mean cops. Anyway, there are rules to obey when you go to boys town. I am repeating what myself and others have written. If you get drunk, you will surely get fucked over if detained, because no one has any respect for someone who can't handle their alcohol. (except, of course, another borracho.)

More below about alcohol.

1. Leave your wallet in a safe place. Carry only what cash you need, plus an extra $200 in your shoe for emergencies, like bribing a cop. That's right, $200. If you don't have it, you can't afford to go. Unless you are really horny, of course, and can't get an American girl to fuck you, not even truck stop whores covered with prison tattoos. Take your ID, of course, but no credit cards or any other wallet contents.

2. Carry your ready cash, your pussy and alcohol and food cash, (if you are brave enough to eat down there), in your front pocket, at least. On really busy nights, which I haven't seen in some time, you may want to carry it in your underwear. Some of those transie pickpockets on third street will surround and jostle and grab at you as you are passing their bar on the sidewalk, and it's goodbye wristwatch.

Yes, they got me for a watch once, though just a three year old Casio that only cost about $12 new, my mongering watch, and they once got a friend of mine for his unnecessarily large stash of front pocket cash. Wait...that wasn't transies, it was those ugly old toothless bitches that hang out near the 1-2-3. ...hmmm...Remind me to get a blow job from one of them sometime.

I got one in an alley in Hong Kong once from a woman who must have been sixty-five. I was on my way back to the ship, six in the morning. I had already had a couple of pretty little skinny Chinese girls, threesome-style all-nighter, but I couldn't resist when she took her dentures out and smacked her lips. It was marvelous, and very inexpensive.

3. Again, don't get drunk. This should have been rule #1. Why would you want to render yourself helpless in that sort of environment? Or in your own house, for that matter.

I see even old hands getting shitfaced and disoriented, who were mongering when I was sucking on a titty. Wait a second...that could have been yesterday, but you know what I mean. They should know better by now. I remember one old guy I saw in the Shamrock, or somewhere, who slobbered and snotted more than Peter North cums. (he's that veteran porn star who spurts about a dozen big ropy squirts of semen. I have a downloaded clip where he completely covers Leilani Lei's face with jizz).

Water was pouring out of the veteran's eyes, too. Looked like he had drunk gasoline. Disgusting.

At least, if you can't control your alcohol, if you are so inhibited that you can't have fun without getting drunk, go with someone who can. For myself, I am very sexually aggressive when sober (I see every woman from legal teens to late fifties as a portable wet vagina), but with every cerveza less and less, until impotent, or at least unable to cum. Go figure.

4. This is not a rule, but I need to throw this in while I'm thinking about it. If I have ever even distantly insinuated that I have consorted with any person who was not fully of legal age, and that includes not only girls but any little transie I'm not aware of who may have fooled me when I was a youngster in the Philippines, I was either lying or you misunderstood me. I would never do something like that. It's illegal and immoral. Actually I prefer menopausal women.

5. Preferably, go to NLBT with a friend, or several if possible. The more inexperienced you are, the more this is necessary. Until you have made the trip a few times, you aren't ready to go by yourself, unless of course you are a monger of other disreputable locations, i.e., Angeles City, Bangkok, Hong Kong or Tokyo (if you are rich), Rio de Janeiro, etc., etc.

NLBT is relatively tame compared to Sao Paulo, for instance, or even places like Juarez, in my opinion, but you can still get havoc wreaked upon you like Tokyo did from Godzilla, if that's what you're looking for. Just be careful. Stay around Papagayo and Tamyko the first time, especially if by yourself.

Work your way over to second street the next time. And so on. Back street and third street are the worst, as well as around the Marabu side. Happy whoring.

 

[mzjilly]

spazmid - I'm not getting that reply either. If it pertains to your post RE "Success in mongering is predicated almost fully on two things;" I thought that was one of your best posts ever with regard to mongering advice. All made good sense to me and I'll probably use some of that.

 

[Exodiafinder]

I don't mean to get in a debate here concerning the NL cops, but I have spoken with many Laredo cops, about the NL cops, and every Laredo cop I've spoken to, has told me they are afraid of the NL cops. They hear about the NL cops all the time. I've also spoken to Laredo city hall about the NL cops, and asked them what to do, if I get fucked over by the NL cops. They hear about the NL cops all the time, also. They advised me to do whatever the NL cops say. Give them my money, whatever. They also told me there is nothing I can do, if I get fucked over by the NL cops. They told me I would be wasting my time, to get an attorney, if I get fucked over by the NL cops. They told me the whole system is corrupt over there. They told me an attorney won't be able to help me.
The Laredo cops do not trust the NL cops at all. They've told me the NL cops will fuck them over too, and that there's nothing they can do about it, if they get fucked over, that will do them any good.
I've spoken with the US consulate on the NL side, and asked their advise on what to do if I get fucked over by the NL cops, and they advised me to stay out of the "red zones" like BT. I asked them if there was anything I could do, if I get fucked over by the NL cops, and they said, "No."
I spoke with the Mexican consulate on the Laredo side, and asked them if there was anything I could do, if I get screwed around by the NL cops, and their response was that I might get screwed around by U.S. cops. I told them I was not concerned about U.S. cops. I was concerned about NL cops. They just sat there, and didn't say anything. What could they say? "We're corrupt, and if you don't like it, you can go fuck yourself?" I was wasting my time, talking to them. The Mexican consulate, on the Laredo side, is an absolute joke. Their attitude about what to do, if I got fucked over by the NL cops, was that if I didn't like it, I could eat shit, MF.
In NL, the cops are corrupt, the system is corrupt, and you simply take your chances if you go over there. That's it. You hope your number doesn't come up, so to speak.
I would advise leaving your credit cards, and ATM card hidden in your motel room. NL cops have been know to drive you to an ATM machine, and force you to withdraw money. If you don't cooperate with them, they might take you out in the middle of nowhere, and beat the shit out of you.
"Don't fuck with the goose, that lays the golden egg," you might say? Don't count on that. They got bills to pay. Fuck the golden goose.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Explain yourself.

 

[anonon]

...your personal experiences. In New Orleans, some cops in a boat refused to rescue some women off of a rooftop because they wouldn't raise their shirts and show them their titties. Others risked their lives to save people. Good cop, bad cop, wherever you go.

 

[wOoTS uP]

Spaz Stop it with all the science Fiction tales.

 

[MaddyxPeace72]

Spazmad wrote: Lotono, you're damn straight it's dangerous. So is Dallas, and the police here don't care about you either, and you are no more likely to get fucked over down there.

I'm writing: I totally disagree with that statement. No more likely to get fucked over by NL cops. I couldn't disagree more.

 

[Pompal 09.]

To tell you the truth, I'm not really up for a train ride of thousands of miles, or driving either. I used to like all those miles, it was stimulating, but any more I just want to get there fast and relax. When I was invited on a cruise recently, I laughed at them...I spent enough time out at sea in the Navy. And I don't even like shuffleboard.

The less time you spend traveling, the more time you have to rest and hang out in border town shitholes, and to fuck the employees. I wish it didn't cost so much to fly from Dallas, which is where I live, to Laredo. I can go to China for that kind of dinero, almost. Don't know why it is so much, but it is.

Arecho, I would probably be up for driving to Laredo and mongering with you there, if things are quiet on the home front at that time, i.e. no fires to put out. If I told you my age you may get the wrong impression of me. Yes, I am older than you, but I can still fuck three different women down to a parade rest every day, for a while at least. My preference for sex - this week anyway - is anal sex with one of those barely-legal skinny girls with big tits...but not implants.

That's after I give her one of my patented enemas with Fleet mineral oil units and Bisacodyl suppositories, one of which will split a block of granite. To make her fresh and clean for my assault, you see. She will be so evacuated that I will not be able to give her a Dirty Sanchez.

I am a lifelong monger, mainly because I get tired of fucking the same woman for very long. I'm not bragging, it's my fatal flaw and the one I regret the most. If I was going to pray for something, it would be a solid lifelong relationship with one woman, but it is not to be. Lo siento mucho para mi.

Lotono, you're damn straight it's dangerous. So is Dallas, and the police here don't care about you either, and you are no more likely to get fucked over down there. Speaking for myself, I have been to NLBT many times, well over 100, at least half of the time by myself, and never a problem. It's mostly a case of keeping yourself fairly sober, behaving like a gentleman even when others don't, and not looking like a victim.

Myself, people have told me that I look like I will be more trouble than it's worth to fuck with, and I don't consider it my job to intervene in situations to try and change the course of history, so folks don't bother me and I don't bother them. It's the way you carry yourself.

One time a whore's Mex boyfriend smacked her in the street, in front of Tamyko. He walloped her several times upside the head with his open hand, and she fell down and started crying and bleeding from the mouth. My friend, who had just fucked her thirty minutes before, made a move to protect her.

I grabbed his arm and told him he'd better remember where he was and let it go. Cops will tell you they hate to intervene in domestic violence, it usually backfires on them. It's like trying to reform a junkie, waste of time. It will just happen again as long as they stay together.

Sounds silly, but in a sinister moment when you feel threatened, just imagine you are on your way to mess someone up, a hit man going to fulfill a contract, to snuff someone out...put that face on, your war face. Bruce Lee. Clint Eastwood. You are The Man. Believe it.

Also, I don't go places that I "have no goddam bidness being", as my uncle used to say.

Let some bitch lead you down some dark alley, shame on you. Think with the big head. In my younger days, I stupidly and frequently put myself in harm's way...no more.

Don't ever cross the street to avoid someone suspicious who's approaching, just act like you are the angry schitzo. Show weakness, and you may find yourself at knifepoint by three wets who want your cash and jewelry. Maybe more. Stuff like that doesn't likely happen except in isolated areas like when you are swinging around by the transie bars going to Marabu, and other lonely areas. So don't, not alone anyway.

As far as the guy losing his boat...what kind of stupid motherfucker drags an expensive boat across the border when there are hundreds of nice lakes in Texas? Sure, there are reasons, but none of them are good ones. And I doubt that you heard all of the story.

Word from on high is leave the tourists alone so they will come back soon and often with their crisp gringo dollars. The last thing they want is to kill the goose who lays the golden egg.

In the Navy,when my ship was it's home port of San Diego, I was the guy in charge of bailing sailors out of the Tijuana carcel, for fighting, pissing in public, destroying property, stealing, AWOL with some senorita, whatever.

It was practically a daily routine, and not once did I retrieve someone who didn't admit during the ride back that he had done the deed. So much for being fucked over in Mexico by the police, it probably happens more up here. Personally, I think our prisons contain many innocent people, and it's proven by modern DNA testing on old evidence.

One more thing. Some guys are disdainful of Mexicans and still go to NLBT just for sex. Why? I go there because I like lowlife bars and Mexican women.

If you don't, you will save money and time if you just stay home. I don't know about you, but for about a hundred I can get a full body massage from a registered therapist who will also give me a GFE. Or a session with an Asian, Greek, Black, or Swedish beauty who looks better than anyone you could ever pick up in a bar, Feo. Or five good blow jobs at the truck stop.

Even if you spend $250, fool, which I am against and disdainful of, you probably get off cheaper than by the time you pay gas, hotel, food, taxi, and a couple of sessions with fat Latinas.

However, if you are not experienced, do only an incall, never an outcall. Not if you are at a hotel, where they have your name, and certainly not at your home. She'll case the joint while she's there. You're asking to be ripped off.

Or, she'll take the money and run. Or her driver will fuck with you, will be beating on the door after she texts him from the bathroom and lets him know she has the cash.

Never pay up front. Tell them that you find that you get better service by paying after. And never give a hooker you're phone number, get hers.

If they don't agree, head for the door...you should have gotten it straight on the phone. He who has the gold makes the rules. They will always try to be in control, don't let them or you are a pussy.

Most of them will say, wait a minute, and do it your way. Too greedy to let you go.

Women will always test you for fitness, whether husband, boyfriend, or customer. It's their nature. Don't play their fucking silly games. You pay the cost to be the boss.

I like to use those referred to me by another user, and those who are independent of agencies and do it in their own home. It's like anything else, there's no substitute for experience and judgement. Get some.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Success in mongering is predicated almost fully on two things;

Uno - Your ability to negotiate the price down without simultaneously lowering the quality of service. Sometimes, however, it's better to not be a cheap Charlie. Every situation is different.

Two-o - Your ability to make a good selection of girl not just predicated on preferred looks, but on the all important attitude.

I want the girl to do whatever I tell her to, and she will agree to many things until she has the money, then possibly fail to perform up to standards. It may be because of laziness, resentment, defiance, or a number of other things.

Here's one of my methods; When you are in a typical situation, sitting at a table in a bar with your chica, start steering her. Wipe your mouth with your napkin, crumple it up and throw it on the table, and tell her to get you another one. Do this when the waiter is far away.

Tell her to massage your shoulders. Make an absurd statement and see if she disagrees. Watch her facial expression when you do these things, and see if a balky or irritated expression crosses her face, even briefly, even if she complies. You want a cheerfully obedient girl.

If she doesn't obey, dump her. If she won't rub your neck a little bit (and I mean gladly, not reluctantly while rolling her fucking eyes), do you think she's going to let you stick your rock-hard cock up her shit-hole?