Gifting a SP or MP, what was the most expensive gift you gave?

[Barney_B]

I am not adverse at tipping for services rendered. Haircut, restaurant, etc. And I have 'tipped' above the agreed to price for services rendered with an SP/MP. And although I have an aversion to gifting a SP/MP, I do gift my regulars during the holiday season. Nothing outrageous usually a bottle of wine, chocolates and gift cards. Usually, $100 to $250 max.

Recently I noticed one of my ex-SP who is now priced well beyond my means posted on twitter that she would like to go to Paris and looking for someone to pay for it. I started to scroll down her past postings and noticed her thanking 'gentlemen for high-end purses, bags, shoes, Dom Perignon and other expensive gifts.

Power to the lady who less that 5 years ago was pricing 1 hour at $200 and now she is north of $700. But for this old goat, I don't see value in that. And if men are willing to drop off tokens of appreciation, good for her.

Got me wondering, what was the most expensive gift you gave to a MP/SP?

No shaming or judging. Curious if I am the norm or a cheap bastard.

 

[Zebra01]

$200 for 30 minutes.

Don’t buy gifts.

 

[Buaya]

I guess you have to look at this from a different perspective.

1. From charging $200 to north of $700. She is a smart girl. She has re position herself into Quality rather then Quantity.
2. Her Client base is now those who can afford it. Clients who consider paying $500 similar to most of us paying $50/$100. Like they say, in the 5 minutes it takes Bill gates to stop and pick up the $100 on the sidewalk, he had just made $500.
3. Same as those who owns luxury cars worth mid 6 figures, and not only 1. - Because they can.

They are not simps that overpay because they cannot get what they want as opposed to good looking guys. They can get whatever they want. It is certainly cheaper for them to pay for pussy then having multiple Trophy wives.

 

[Barney_B]

I guess you have to look at this from a different perspective.

1. From charging $200 to north of $700. She is a smart girl. She has re position herself into Quality rather then Quantity.
2. Her Client base is now those who can afford it. Clients who consider paying $500 similar to most of us paying $50/$100. Like they say, in the 5 minutes it takes Bill gates to stop and pick up the $100 on the sidewalk, he had just made $500.
3. Same as those who owns luxury cars worth mid 6 figures, and not only 1. - Because they can.

They are not simps that overpay because they cannot get what they want as opposed to good looking guys. They can get whatever they want. It is certainly cheaper for them to pay for pussy then having multiple Trophy wives.

No issues as to what she charges. If there were no clients willing to play, she would either drop her price or go out of business.


And I get that to some 700 is nothing. One of my regs was put on an exclusive retainer during covid. Buddy paid her 1k weekly as long as she only saw him during the pandemic. She would go to his office for a session. It worked for both of them.

Just curious on the gifting question.

 

[CMS]

My ATF is a Caucasian masseuse in Vancouver whom I have kept in touch all these years. She is not as active in the past (more in the sense she hasn't posted ads for a long time but still taking appointments if things align) and is back in school. I have been sending her ~$200 gift cards total between her birthday and year-end, mainly because we have established a rapport.

I might be overstating the obvious here but I do not look to establish a relationship with most of the SP/MP. To me, it is their donation request and the, ahem, accepted-but-not-required additional tip. So, yeah, I don't think you are cheap if you choose not to buy "gifts". You are fulfilling your end of the bargain.

 

[luvdafurburger]

I am not adverse at tipping for services rendered. Haircut, restaurant, etc. And I have 'tipped' above the agreed to price for services rendered with an SP/MP. And although I have an aversion to gifting a SP/MP, I do gift my regulars during the holiday season. Nothing outrageous usually a bottle of wine, chocolates and gift cards. Usually, $100 to $250 max.

Recently I noticed one of my ex-SP who is now priced well beyond my means posted on twitter that she would like to go to Paris and looking for someone to pay for it. I started to scroll down her past postings and noticed her thanking 'gentlemen for high-end purses, bags, shoes, Dom Perignon and other expensive gifts.

Power to the lady who less that 5 years ago was pricing 1 hour at $200 and now she is north of $700. But for this old goat, I don't see value in that. And if men are willing to drop off tokens of appreciation, good for her.

Got me wondering, what was the most expensive gift you gave to a MP/SP?

No shaming or judging. Curious if I am the norm or a cheap bastard.

Imo gifts can lead to expectations. Then expectations lead to being taken for granted.
These "high class" ones who have ridiculous "wish lists" can wish all they want. I personally don't partake that area of the market anymore.

But if a simp wants to feel important pandering to these ridiculous requests then all the power to her. But it ain't me. I take small tokens to regulars and owners occasionally to show appreciation but it sure isn't in the price range you mentioned.