But why was it a "complete turn off" then? You recognize that she is a RMT ( a well known RMT) and there is a risk to her practice if she goes around testing the waters. You also recognize that it was clearly an accident and that she startled you. Based on your reaction she recognized, that she had poked you hard and she apologized for it. If I was her I would have moved onto an another area as well. If I was "testing the waters" and I realized I messed up I would not try it again for a while. Now if you guys had some type joking banter ongoing, talked about very loose draping, she had gotton close to the boys before and you had given her some signals like opening your legs more, moving into her massage rythum when she is massaging your butt or something etc... so things where suttlely known. Then now all of a sudden she just stopped playing the game, then ya I would be out of there too. Otherwise sounds like a pure accident and there was never a subtle/innocent game in play, she was just being professional and doing her job. If her RMT skills where not that great, she charged over the standard insurance rate etc.. then I would be moving on quickly to hopefully greener pastures with that elusive unicorn. Not trying to stir up anything, I just did not get why the accidnetal poke was a big deal. I go in not expecting much, hopefully a bit of dance, but if you are a Nazi on the draping it is one and done. Good hunting for that unicorn.