Jamie @ sunshinespa - clean thread

[ddbigtime]

Pictures are accurate, hair is a little different then the pictures but same girl. Especially when look at her assets which are a set of teardrop shaped naturals. Best features for sure. Overall the service is not quite at the same level that I would have gotten from someone who is more experienced on the MP side, the other stuff extra etc were on par for someone experienced on that side.

Would I go again? Maybe have to see, I don't think she sees alot of people who are not looking for the big "extra". I don't like the location though, it was very inconvenient and it actually affected the session. Was hoping to be able to finish, even paid for the additional time but stuff happened and I had to leave early unfulfilled again. It seems like a sign or maybe it's karma, at least the mood was there.

She's an above average GND, great body, she's soft. Small fist sized tattoo on the midriff. If you have seen feedback on other boards, something was mentioned, there was little bit of that concern this time but was within tolerance.

For what I got this time, it was a very expensive session for not being able to finish. Better luck next time to me!

I made a clean thread so that the drama can stay on the other one.

I also wanted to clarify something. I don't look for FS all the time, it's actually rare. Yes I have asked in the past but there was a very special reason that I will not go into. In this case, I was not asking for FS/Big extra it was very clear. Nothing outside of MPA limits was provided and that's how I normally like my sessions.

I felt she is not accustomed to doing the "massage" portion of the MP side of the business, the rest is par for course. I had requested a 45 min session but I actually enjoy conversation and was looking for intimacy. Alot has happened to me recently and was looking to plug a new void until I can move on/move away.

Thats all.

 

[Leviathan]

I thought your review was fair, authentic and harmless. The extremist over the top reaction by Ursula was uncalled for. I don’t blame Ursus. It’s to be expected. I blame SBJ who could put a stop to this childish nonsense. But she gleefully fuels it with unabashed enthusiasm=likes. But tempers it with her standard template sorry babe, thank you, and hope u come again.

The so called drama is due to fanboy pimp wannabe extremism. They go on the attack if your reviews are perceived less than the ideal in any sense of the word. The common tactic by the extremist is to attack your credibility by flexing their veteran seniority status and using their Thug and sleeper handles to gang attack. I guess it suppose show “He da man white knight” for the MPA or SP in exchange for fringe Benefits.

The classy MPA and SP don’t need the extremist. It’s primarily repeat business and word of mouth with little or no ads.

The MPA and SPs play along straddling both sides of the fence. They love the hype advertising but sooner or later ....boom ! it back fires. See it time and time again. The extremists and SP/MPA teaming is a High volume transactional churn business model. The extremist needs to keep feeding the sales funnel. Which is contrary to delivering quality and repeat loyal clients.
When Ursula went on the attack, SBJ did nothing and turned a blind eye . It served her but not you. No ethical backbone. She was caught in a catch 22 situation and chose the no integrity route. But are you surprised ? Nope it’s flesh for cash business lol lol

Every forum has the same narrative. It’s the cast of characters that change.

 

[ddbigtime]

View attachment 91874 The so called drama is due to fanboy extremism. They go on the attack if your reviews are perceived less than the ideal in any sense of the word. The common tactic by the extremist is to attack your credibility by flexing their veteran seniority status and using their Thug and sleeper handles to gang attack. I guess it suppose show “He da man white knight” for the MPA or SP in exchange for fringe Benefits.

The MP and SPs play along straddling both sides of the fence. They love the hype advertising but sooner or later ....boom ! it back fires. See it time and time again.

Every forum has the same narrative. It’s the cast of characters that change.

respectfully, please edit your post to remove the image.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

I made a clean thread so that the drama can stay on the other one.

I also wanted to clarify something. I don't look for FS all the time, it's actually rare. Yes I have asked in the past but there was a very special reason that I will not go into. In this case, I was not asking for FS/Big extra it was very clear. Nothing outside of MPA limits was provided and that's how I normally like my sessions.

I felt she is not accustomed to doing the "massage" portion of the MP side of the business, the rest is par for course. I had requested a 45 min session but I actually enjoy conversation and was looking for intimacy. Alot has happened to me recently and was looking to plug a new void until I can move on/move away.

Thats all.

Thank you for the second review I suppose! To be honest, I would say I am accustomed to the “massage aspect”, and I prefer to do it sometimes because it’s more intimate for me as well! However you must keep in consideration that I work at a FS spa, where gentleman come in expecting that. Normally when people come in prior to our session they specific what they like. I did say I provide gfe experience, if you were looking for intimate you should have said so! Whenpeople don’t really specify what their looking for I assume it’s just full service. However with that being said once you did mention you were not looking for fs we began to become more intimate then the whole misconfusion with bi law happened. In the past I’ve even gone as far as getting personal scents for clients and candles etc for that overall ambiance. Your review is certainly fair but I feel like if we communicated with what we wanted it would have been a great session. It wasn’t my fault our session got cut short and I obviously would compensate you with more time but theirs no need for another thread lol. Anyways hope you all enjoy your day! Xoxo

 

[Merlin]

Can anyone explain to me what gfe is, maybe Jamie can explain since she says she offers it. Never can tell what people mean by this. Is gfe a lot of lfk dfk but no bbbj fs or is it fs just not in a wham bam thank you maam way or is it we lie on the table and talk about how our day went.

 

[Leviathan]

There are 2 basic types of MPA or Sps at opposite ends of the spectrum .

McDonalds =Low EQ Order takers. You need to basically spell out exactly what you want. A transactional customer experience.

Scaramouche = High EQ Consultative Courtesan. Using intuition the MPA quickly can feel out and assess the client’s personality and subtly probe wth questions while discreetly monitoring physical and facial reactions of the client to deliver a seamlessly and natural mutually beneficial outcome.

An enhanced Fantasy customer experience.


What do you guys prefer ?

 

[Squad]

There are 2 basic types of MPA or Sps at opposite ends of the spectrum .

McDonalds =Low EQ Order takers. You need to basically spell out exactly what you want.

Scaramouche = High EQ Consultative Courtesan. Using intuition the MPA quickly can feel out and assess the client’s personality and subtly probe wth questions while discreetly monitoring physical and facial reactions of the client to deliver a seamlessly and natural mutually beneficial outcome.


What do you guys prefer ?

Scaramouche!

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

There are 2 basic types of MPA or Sps at opposite ends of the spectrum .

McDonalds =Low EQ Order takers. You need to basically spell out exactly what you want. A transactional customer experience.

Scaramouche = High EQ Consultative Courtesan. Using intuition the MPA quickly can feel out and assess the client’s personality and subtly probe wth questions while discreetly monitoring physical and facial reactions of the client to deliver a seamlessly and natural mutually beneficial outcome.

An enhanced Fantasy customer experience.


What do you guys prefer ?

You can’t expect every session to be cookie cutter like that. I was not implying he needs to spell it out, however I’m not going to go kissing a gentleman and being intimate If that’s not what he’s looking for. In sessions, especially if you’ve never met and your coming in based on reviews and the web, communication is certainly key I can see where your trying to take jabs at me, I’m not sure as towards what your issue is with me but hey if that makes your day better by all means.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

Some clients “body language” or how they act does not really show what they want. Sometimes clients want to be taken out of their comfort zone to more kinky things and sometimes people come into a room feeling awkward or nervous and it’s hard to pin point what they’d exactly want LOL.

 

[Merlin]

A mpa who takes direction well is the best. It’s crazy to expect girls to be mind readers, if I don’t tell a girl what I like and she doesn’t do what I like I have only myself to blame for the session. Sometimes it takes a session or two to get into a real comfort zone with a mpa but you can tell the ones who definitely won’t work right away, they make no effort to play along when I’m doing a fantasy role play thing and dirty talk, rolls her eyes, goes straight to the jackhammer. You wouldn’t go to a restaurant and expect the chef to mind read your favourite dish and know your allergies you gotta give them your order same with your mpa.

 

[Leviathan]

The best providers put you at ease especially with shy and nervous types and draw out the deep desires of the client. It’s a mutual responsibility of both parties. I don’t recall saying the provider needs to be a “mind reader”. Or is this selective reasoning to align to your rules of engagement ? Intimacy or personal connection is not a huge stretch to elicit out of a client. It’s not like Wishing her to be dominatrix. This is provider 101. It’s not rocket science.

If she is a order taker, then be proactive and spell out min base service and the rest is ymmv. Then the client will be clear on expectation. The client can choose how to proceed with more questions or disengage. By putting the onus entirely on the client is lazy and a convenient out. If anyone encountered any tier 1 and tier 3 service based professional will know the difference in service level and expertise in delivering the best possible outcome by minimizing expectation gap risk

Scaramouche = High EQ Consultative Courtesan. Using intuition the MPA quickly can feel out and assess the client’s personality and subtly probe with questions while discreetly monitoring physical and facial reactions of the client to deliver a seamlessly and natural mutually beneficial outcome.

A mpa who takes direction well is the best. It’s crazy to expect girls to be mind readers, if I don’t tell a girl what I like and she doesn’t do what I like I have only myself to blame for the session. Sometimes it takes a session or two to get into a real comfort zone with a mpa but you can tell the ones who definitely won’t work right away, they make no effort to play along when I’m doing a fantasy role play thing and dirty talk, rolls her eyes, goes straight to the jackhammer. You wouldn’t go to a restaurant and expect the chef to mind read your favourite dish and know your allergies you gotta give them your order same with your mpa.

 

[Leviathan]

This a free board. You take the good with bad if you are mature enough to participate. You can’t have it both ways. It’s all about managing expectations from both sides. It’s a business with both a human physical and emotional element. Both parties need to come to a mutual consensus agreement through dialogue for mutual satisfaction. You chose to put the onus entirely on the client as an order taker. I respectfully disagree with my experience with great courtesans. Im entitled to my opinion and don’t need your back handed permission.

When things are going your way with the fanatical Ursus constantly pumping your greatness and attacking ddbigtime, whom was a gentleman in his review if you noticed, You stood by applauding Ursus by saying zilch. Any genuine provider would have told Ursus to stand down. But you made your client feel like a POS and the feeble “thanks , Sorry hope you come again” was your out?

But as soon as someone reviews you with less than the Ursus and LI ideal, it’s ok because it’s not your fault because you couldn’t read their minds . If a client does state their mind and was left Unfulfilled it’s ymmv. So it’s no win situation with a critical reviewer. How convenient for you and your white knight fanboys.

I think board members are intelligent enough to decipher and filter extreme outliers both highly positive and negative reviews. JB Bats and ddbigtime reviews were nowhere near those extremes.

By the way if the inspectors caused ddbigtime session to be rushed and cut short, did you offer A) any concessions ? B) Or was that his responsibility ? C) Or chalk it up to bad luck? D) Or grabbed the cash and ran? E) Any combination of the above ?

You can’t expect every session to be cookie cutter like that. I was not implying he needs to spell it out, however I’m not going to go kissing a gentleman and being intimate If that’s not what he’s looking for. In sessions, especially if you’ve never met and your coming in based on reviews and the web, communication is certainly key I can see where your trying to take jabs at me, I’m not sure as towards what your issue is with me but hey if that makes your day better by all means.

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

This a free board. You take the good with bad if you are mature enough to participate. You can’t have it both ways. It’s all about managing expectations from both sides. It’s a business with both a human physical and emotional element. Both parties need to come to a mutual consensus agreement through dialogue for mutual satisfaction. You chose to put the onus entirely on the client as an order taker. I respectfully disagree with my experience with great courtesans. Im entitled to my opinion and don’t need your back handed permission.

When things are going your way with the fanatical Ursus constantly pumping your greatness and attacking ddbigtime, whom was a gentleman in his review if you noticed, You stood by applauding Ursus by saying zilch. Any genuine provider would have told Ursus to stand down. But you made your client feel like a POS and the feeble “thanks , Sorry hope you come again” was your out?

But as soon as someone reviews you with less than the Ursus and LI ideal, it’s ok because it’s not your fault because you couldn’t read their minds . If a client does state their mind and was left Unfulfilled it’s ymmv. So it’s no win situation with a critical reviewer. How convenient for you and your white knight fanboys.

I think board members are intelligent enough to decipher and filter extreme outliers both highly positive and negative reviews. JB Bats and ddbigtime reviews were nowhere near those extremes.

By the way if the inspectors caused ddbigtime session to be rushed and cut short, did you offer A) any concessions ? B) Or was that his responsibility ? C) Or chalk it up to bad luck? D) Or grabbed the cash and ran? E) Any combination of the above ?

Well this is the second post in regards to the exact same session, I respect where everyone is coming from completley but I’ve already stated what happened in the first post, I’ve stated I respect all parties opinions and even replied to Ursus that everyone is entitled to their opinion so that’s false! I take good and bad reviews as constructive criticism, and certainly try to reflect so the same thing doesn’t occur in the future. I feel like your just trying to nit pick at me for No reason though, which is fine, doesn’t really reflect me as a person much but your taking this more seriously then I am I suppose. If bi law didn’t come he would have received a session that wasn’t shortened.

And I don’t rely on my “fans” for good reviews or anything. Massage planet is a sector of people who I see.. I certainly do respect everyone’s opinions but at the end of the day it doesn’t make or break me, nor do I need to explain that to you,

Regardless at whatever your trying to get at with this post I think Marjoirty of the people whom have visited sunshine can say I am genuine, and I do try to ensure everyone’s happy and I’m a sweet girl. I’m going to stop commenting on this though because there’s no reason this should be continued on when this review or session was certainly just a miss communication (on my end I suppose) as well as unfortunate timing! (With bi law visiting)

 

[Lovederub]

Jamie you are a sweet lady one of the best provider in this business unfortunetly there are lots of loser on here
Don't worry and don't bother about these idiots life is too short keep up the amazing work you do and 95 % of us are delighted by your attention to details during sessions in my book you are amazing

 

[Leviathan]

No hard feelings. I will book you to show my sincerity and test your courtesan skills. Have fun with Ursus! Lol lol

Well this is the second post in regards to the exact same session, I respect where everyone is coming from completley but I’ve already stated what happened in the first post, I’ve stated I respect all parties opinions and even replied to Ursus that everyone is entitled to their opinion so that’s false! I take good and bad reviews as constructive criticism, and certainly try to reflect so the same thing doesn’t occur in the future. I feel like your just trying to nit pick at me for No reason though, which is fine, doesn’t really reflect me as a person much but your taking this more seriously then I am I suppose. If bi law didn’t come he would have received a session that wasn’t shortened.

And I don’t rely on my “fans” for good reviews or anything. Massage planet is a sector of people who I see.. I certainly do respect everyone’s opinions but at the end of the day it doesn’t make or break me, nor do I need to explain that to you,

Regardless at whatever your trying to get at with this post I think Marjoirty of the people whom have visited sunshine can say I am genuine, and I do try to ensure everyone’s happy and I’m a sweet girl. I’m going to stop commenting on this though because there’s no reason this should be continued on when this review or session was certainly just a miss communication (on my end I suppose) as well as unfortunate timing! (With bi law visiting)

 

[playfulfun]

Leviathan
Why bring Daniella into this thread?
It is a thread about Jamie.

 

[Leviathan]

Leviathan
Why bring Daniella into this thread?
It is a thread about Jamie.

It’s not about Daniella . It’s about foreshadowing Ursula’s “revolving door” worshipping. SBJ is the next victim. History always repeats itself ?

 

[LostInnocence]

I got mentioned too...

With Jamie, as with most of the ladies in the industry, communication is key. If she knows what you want, you have a better chance that she'll do it with you than if she has to guess.

Everyone wants something different. Don't make her try to figure it out and then complain if she doesn't.

 

[Leviathan]

Ok the sounding horn has blown. The white knights are coming to the rescue! Blindly toe Same line. So predictable .

1. The Verbose Love Story Holding Hands White Knight who PMs for bookings.
2. The Relvolving Door Worshipping White Knight
3. ? Next. sleeper handles and new members arising out of the poppies?

 

[JaimeWolf]

^That isn't entirely true. For the guy it's similar risk. For the girl, pussy slides are less risky because the guy isn't ejaculating inside her.