Question Mentioning review to MPA

[sy barite]

… guess since mpas interacting w this site has been integral 2 my hobbyng, my perspective= kinda different…

… most girls in industry= zero reviews… so kj & various promoters perform Important service… general appearance, age + 7 or 10 yrs, , kinda services they do…

… most guys have no idea where 2 find their fantasy or kink… but this site tells me where 2 find Asian spinners who do DFK & or bbbjcim… or EE GIRLS w big tits & stockings 4 some of us…

…. & by far most 411 f/ shills…

Yes, that's why I stipulated "as reviews" when I said they're comments have no value to me. They may be accurate when they describe the girl and her service, but it's not something I'd bank on. When you add in the fake pics some post...the value becomes even more dubious. Besides, as I've said elsewhere, a good chunk of the fun for me is in finding the girl that turns my crank. But if you find it's valuable--great!

 

[Deleted member 92532]

Yes, that's why I stipulated "as reviews" when I said they're comments have no value to me. They may be accurate when they describe the girl and her service, but it's not something I'd bank on. When you add in the fake pics some post...the value becomes even more dubious. Besides, as I've said elsewhere, a good chunk of the fun for me is in finding the girl that turns my crank. But if you find it's valuable--great!

Oh absolutely. People have a huge variety of tastes in everything. I like certain movies and shows and others hate them. I’m not a fan of spicy food but others absolutely love it.

 

[xtc27]

Yes, that's why I stipulated "as reviews" when I said they're comments have no value to me. They may be accurate when they describe the girl and her service, but it's not something I'd bank on. When you add in the fake pics some post...the value becomes even more dubious. Besides, as I've said elsewhere, a good chunk of the fun for me is in finding the girl that turns my crank. But if you find it's valuable--great!

… don’t always need review, but sometimes … gr8! @caliguy , @Happyman & @Picko Lime did gr8 reviews… enuf I could read btwn lines, figure out these girls = MCOT…

Itsa shame so few reviews on tiny spas… nvr forget absolute gem, LaLa @ Elegant Spa… very pretty Korean, blonde hair, high mileage … super nice… long gone… these promo guys don’t check these places out… Dufferin has mebbe 4 tiny spas like this… Comfort spa, Peach Flower, some tiny place north of that… still open… prolly a gem in there somewhere…

 

[curvluvr]

I personally would never mention reviews to an MPA unless she brings it up in conversation. They don't need to know if I came to them because of a review, or because I just picked them from the website, etc.

In the same way that a secret restaurant reviewer could enter be dining and judging a restaurant at any time, I'm sure that many MPA's are aware that they guy on the table could be an active member on this board or the red board.
I've only had an MPA mention review boards in conversation once.
Smarter MPA's would realize that every guy they see could be an active reviewer, which could potentially attract more guys to want to see her.
This should (at least for the smart ones) compel them to make the effort with every single guy. This should tend to keep standards relatively consistent.

But on the other hand, those MPA's who keep getting bad reviews have no idea how much business they're losing because one guy told people on a board like here to stay away for reasons X, Y, and Z.
These poorly reviewed MPA's become one-and-done's, only to be tried once, and never again... never realizing that repeat business can be gained in this industry.

I could go on forever about how MPA's gain or lose my repeat business, but it boils down to their own intelligence. I've met MPA's and SP's on both sides.

 

[cali99]

… don’t always need review, but sometimes … gr8! @caliguy , @Happyman & @Picko Lime did gr8 reviews… enuf I could read btwn lines, figure out these girls = MCOT…

Itsa shame so few reviews on tiny spas… nvr forget absolute gem, LaLa @ Elegant Spa… very pretty Korean, blonde hair, high mileage … super nice… long gone… these promo guys don’t check these places out… Dufferin has mebbe 4 tiny spas like this… Comfort spa, Peach Flower, some tiny place north of that… still open… prolly a gem in there somewhere…

like that picko review for yoyo, "red haired japanese" is what got me to look!
and he was right.. got to know yoyo a little bit and found out she's a cool chick!

 

[xtc27]

like that picko review for yoyo, "red haired japanese" is what got me to look!
and he was right.. got to know yoyo a little bit and found out she's a cool chick!

Changed name now, right?

 

[cali99]

Changed name now, right?

yes

 

[xtc27]

yes

Yumi. Confirmed by tat.

Yumi @ Anna Relax

Came by the other day, parking is convenient front and back for more privacy. The door is not very well indicated besides a camera on-top of the door and huge visually impaired door bell. Was greeted by a youngster with pink hair, Yumi dressed in a summer dress and was escorted to a huge room...

massageplanet.net

… if she’ll resume DFK & bbbjcim , I’ll bike out there…

Cbj & cfs & no mouth action… can get that around here anywhere…

 

[shitforbrains]

I think it's a double-edged sword. If she knows you're a reviewer, you'll probably get at least a decent session, but you might not get her best session.
She won't half-ass it and give you a low-effort shitty session, because she knows that could cost her business.
OTOH, there may be some YMMV things that she doesn't want to provide everyone who comes to see her.. she might either forgo those things or ask you not to mention them in your review.

As to how you let her know you're a reviewer, if you think that's in your best interest.. that's a different discussion..

 

[cali99]

Yumi. Confirmed by tat.

Yumi @ Anna Relax

Came by the other day, parking is convenient front and back for more privacy. The door is not very well indicated besides a camera on-top of the door and huge visually impaired door bell. Was greeted by a youngster with pink hair, Yumi dressed in a summer dress and was escorted to a huge room...

massageplanet.net

… if she’ll resume DFK & bbbjcim , I’ll bike out there…

Cbj & cfs & no mouth action… can get that around here anywhere…

havent seen or spoke to her for awhile now so not sure she's even working anymore!

 

[xtc27]

havent seen or spoke to her for awhile now so not sure she's even working anymore!

… a spicy Jap Yumi appeared on schedule this Monday…

Spa AD - Anna Relax Spa @2950 Kennedy Road. Scarborough

@Beautipool who's working today

massageplanet.net

… betcha that’s her… IMHO all ‘Jap’ girls @ Anna Relax = her under various names… she use2 work 6-7 days/wk…

… mebbe that mileage gonna return!

 

[curvluvr]

Just today, I read a recent tweet by an indy SP that I'm hoping to meet, saying that she actually tends to avoid prospective clients that contact her, saying that they're a member of a review board.
Her reasoning was that she doesn't want to be described like a dish in a restaurant review.

I think I've made the mistake of texting her, mentioning that I'm a member of a review board, thinking that it would help with my screening if I provided my handle. I think this approach has backfired on me.
So from now on, I won't even mention review boards in my initial approach.
I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing an indy that I've been admiring for a while.

 

[cali99]

Just today, I read a recent tweet by an indy SP that I'm hoping to meet, saying that she actually tends to avoid prospective clients that contact her, saying that they're a member of a review board.
Her reasoning was that she doesn't want to be described like a dish in a restaurant review.

I think I've made the mistake of texting her, mentioning that I'm a member of a review board, thinking that it would help with my screening if I provided my handle. I think this approach has backfired on me.
So from now on, I won't even mention review boards in my initial approach.
I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing an indy that I've been admiring for a while.

why the backfire? what happened?

 

[curvluvr]

why the backfire? what happened?

Nothing much happened... It's just that in my first couple texts to her, I introduced myself (age, nationality, etc.) and also mentioned that I was an active member of a particular review board. I'm always very polite and courteous in my texts.
I only received a short reply after my second text. Since then, over the past few weeks, I've sent the occasional text, checking her availability, but no reply.

I happened to wander by her Twitter feed recently, and I noticed a recent tweet that admitted that she is actually inclined NOT see anyone who says that they're a member of a Review board, stating reasonable reasons for her preference.

Perhaps I'm getting paranoid, but I'm thinking that my self-introduction that mentioned that I'm a member of a review board may have turned her off.

I don't hobby very frequently. I'm very particular about the indy's that I choose to contact, and I have very particular tastes (=picky) in the ladies that I choose to contact.
So if I'm contacting an indy by text, I've already done the research and read any reviews, so I'm already VERY interested in seeing them by the time I'm texting her. So I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing them by saying anything that will turn them off or (heaven forbid) get me blacklisted or blocked.

That's why I won't mention review boards again in my initial correspondences. I just need to fine-tune my initial approach to give me the best chances of getting an appointment.

 

[xtc27]

Nothing much happened... It's just that in my first couple texts to her, I introduced myself (age, nationality, etc.) and also mentioned that I was an active member of a particular review board. I'm always very polite and courteous in my texts.
I only received a short reply after my second text. Since then, over the past few weeks, I've sent the occasional text, checking her availability, but no reply.

I happened to wander by her Twitter feed recently, and I noticed a recent tweet that admitted that she is actually inclined NOT see anyone who says that they're a member of a Review board, stating reasonable reasons for her preference.

Perhaps I'm getting paranoid, but I'm thinking that my self-introduction that mentioned that I'm a member of a review board may have turned her off.

I don't hobby very frequently. I'm very particular about the indy's that I choose to contact, and I have very particular tastes (=picky) in the ladies that I choose to contact.
So if I'm contacting an indy by text, I've already done the research and read any reviews, so I'm already VERY interested in seeing them by the time I'm texting her. So I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing them by saying anything that will turn them off or (heaven forbid) get me blacklisted or blocked.

That's why I won't mention review boards again in my initial correspondences. I just need to fine-tune my initial approach to give me the best chances of getting an appointment.

Just download TextNow, make new ph # & start over…

No harm in trying stuff… it doesn’t work, who cares? New ph#, try again…

Seeing a SP ain’t like breaking in2 Fort Knox… they wanna c u even more than u wanna c them…

 

[cali99]

Nothing much happened... It's just that in my first couple texts to her, I introduced myself (age, nationality, etc.) and also mentioned that I was an active member of a particular review board. I'm always very polite and courteous in my texts.
I only received a short reply after my second text. Since then, over the past few weeks, I've sent the occasional text, checking her availability, but no reply.

I happened to wander by her Twitter feed recently, and I noticed a recent tweet that admitted that she is actually inclined NOT see anyone who says that they're a member of a Review board, stating reasonable reasons for her preference.

Perhaps I'm getting paranoid, but I'm thinking that my self-introduction that mentioned that I'm a member of a review board may have turned her off.

I don't hobby very frequently. I'm very particular about the indy's that I choose to contact, and I have very particular tastes (=picky) in the ladies that I choose to contact.
So if I'm contacting an indy by text, I've already done the research and read any reviews, so I'm already VERY interested in seeing them by the time I'm texting her. So I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing them by saying anything that will turn them off or (heaven forbid) get me blacklisted or blocked.

That's why I won't mention review boards again in my initial correspondences. I just need to fine-tune my initial approach to give me the best chances of getting an appointment.

I'm glad you are picky on who you choose to get involved with.. 9.5 OUT OF 10 CIVIE OR MPAS GIRLS, YOU WILL NOT CONNECT WITH!
take your time.. but if she is all that and a bag of chips and you have to see her.. go see her and do what you have to do to accomplish that.. then.......... and at the the end of your session, ask her, if she wants a few words written.. she will let her feelings known. believe me (and I am only a rookie) plus, maybe.. you might not want to write anyway! because it didn't live up to the hype!
don't want you writing anything that is not on point... and half truths to us fellow horndogs do us no good!
tbh..
I'm most likely the very pickiest person!! and my gfe experience's include a certain level of honesty, respect and other...
don't worry about reviews.. focus on your best experiences!


be weary, of buffalos.

 

[Deleted member 92532]

Nothing much happened... It's just that in my first couple texts to her, I introduced myself (age, nationality, etc.) and also mentioned that I was an active member of a particular review board. I'm always very polite and courteous in my texts.
I only received a short reply after my second text. Since then, over the past few weeks, I've sent the occasional text, checking her availability, but no reply.

I happened to wander by her Twitter feed recently, and I noticed a recent tweet that admitted that she is actually inclined NOT see anyone who says that they're a member of a Review board, stating reasonable reasons for her preference.

Perhaps I'm getting paranoid, but I'm thinking that my self-introduction that mentioned that I'm a member of a review board may have turned her off.

I don't hobby very frequently. I'm very particular about the indy's that I choose to contact, and I have very particular tastes (=picky) in the ladies that I choose to contact.
So if I'm contacting an indy by text, I've already done the research and read any reviews, so I'm already VERY interested in seeing them by the time I'm texting her. So I don't want to jeopardize my chances of seeing them by saying anything that will turn them off or (heaven forbid) get me blacklisted or blocked.

That's why I won't mention review boards again in my initial correspondences. I just need to fine-tune my initial approach to give me the best chances of getting an appointment.

Yeah I would never give my handle out to an agency or indy unless they were comfortable with it. Some will ask for a handle as a way of reference, and others will view that as a negative. Still…you’d figure she could just say “no reviews” and leave it at that but some just don’t want to handle the headache if the client doesn’t follow that request (frankly, I think they should write if they want to but the lady is free to blacklist them too for now following).

 

[Deleted member 92532]

I'm glad you are picky on who you choose to get involved with.. 9.5 OUT OF 10 CIVIE OR MPAS GIRLS, YOU WILL NOT CONNECT WITH!
take your time.. but if she is all that and a bag of chips and you have to see her.. go see her and do what you have to do to accomplish that.. then.......... and at the the end of your session, ask her, if she wants a few words written.. she will let her feelings known. believe me (and I am only a rookie) plus, maybe.. you might not want to write anyway! because it didn't live up to the hype!
don't want you writing anything that is not on point... and half truths to us fellow horndogs do us no good!
tbh..
I'm most am likely the very pickiest person!! and my gfe experience's include a certain level of honesty, respect and other...
don't worry about reviews.. focus on your best experiences!


be weary, of buffalos.

Yeah it’s very much a YMMV. My own personal fave, we really click (or she’s just REALLY good at pretending). I’m not sure how she is with others but three times now with her and I’ve always had a great time. Always a great time chatting with her (of course this assumes you can speak Chinese) and that makes the actual fun part more fun.

 

[cali99]

Yeah it’s very much a YMMV. My own personal fave, we really click (or she’s just REALLY good at pretending). I’m not sure how she is with others but three times now with her and I’ve always had a great time. Always a great time chatting with her (of course this assumes you can speak Chinese) and that makes the actual fun part more fun.

it's pretty cool to find someone you click with and I enjoy the chit chat just as much and yes, they pretend pretty good!! ha ha
but there is an element about you they like,
(besides your wallet) that they can open up to you about themselves to a certain degree.
If you enjoy your time with her, keep seeing her for fucks sake (pun intended). ha ha
keep it real , keep your expectations at a level that is comfortable and indulge..
as she could be gone in a flash!

cheers

 

[Dong Hung Lo]

I carry a notebook and take notes during the session. I tell them they will be reviewed.