🔥 My MPA wants to see me again—something real or a red flag?

[SuperSport]

As of right now, it’s hard for me to think of not going, but interested to hear what people say and of course, I can always change my mind and cancel with her.

OMG you're young.

You did or said something to make her believe you would have money and are not married / attached - she is going to find out quickly.
You exhibited a sense that you were already overly enamoured with her = she read you like a book.
She can replace your one hour at the SPA with anyone, how can she increase / lower her costs in general = you. She's going hook line & sinker you, she done it many times before.
You will become her Driver, Handy man, Dinner dude, Door dash, Wardrobe supply manager, Boy toy.

You should say, "Sorry not this week Honey, I'm busy closing my business due to losses in the market which COVID created, ask for a new day next week instead," then see what her response is.

If she wants and all she cares about is your super fuck buddy benefits, why would she care if you have money or closing a business right?

There's nothing wrong with being super attracted to someone that is hot, especially when in your mind you could never expect to land one like her. Don't pretend you won't / don't have feelings, this will not be about getting fucked, you will fall head over heels (likely already have) for a hot looking girrrr , ,, ,,, and that's where it stops, you will never see the last part = she's a hoe, she does relationships and pats on the ass for money. Do her at the SPA, it's cheaper, even if she says "free" outside, less likely to cost you your feelings and money, just money. After you see her at the SPA 5 times then come back here and tell us how great she is and you are going to be picked up by her horse carriage and going to her castle to compete in the nude Olympics.

 

[felixami]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Answering some of the common feedback-

Only go for it if you’re single
I’m single, so I’m primarily concerned about anonymity and security

She’s only doing this freebie to lock you in/extract more from you
She made clear this isn’t a money thing, so if she’s trying to build a sugar daddy relationship after this visit, I can ghost her.

Don’t bring any valuables with you
I have a burner phone, bringing limited cash and going to get a cab (not to exact location). I’m also going to check out where the place is once I get the address and see if it’s an area I feel unsafe. The spa isn’t known for having problems with questionable girls, drugs, pimples, LE, etc, so that helps my comfort level with all of this.

Do it at a neutral spot, like a hotel
On two minds about this, not because I’m cheap, but want to decide once she shares the address because I’m curious.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

Don’t fall in love/stuck in relationship that fucks up your life
I’m going into this with a clear head and I wouldn’t partner with someone like this for various reasons, so I’m not worried (thank you to the anonymous friend for sharing his experience with this).

Also, something else that no one brought up that I realized today: I better bring my own condoms lol

She’s working you, how is she not getting off at a shift and needs more when she’s done?
Not all of the clients do FS and the ones that do, she’s servicing them and not necessarily creating pleasure for herself, some are uncomfortable experiences.

I have thought about how emotionally and mentally sound she is, but if I have this visit in the right circumstances, I can easily back out/leave and ghost her if it doesn’t feel right.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

if you can avoid the hotels
this is a sweet deal
hotels add up

 

[luvdafurburger]

OMG you're young.

You did or said something to make her believe you would have money and are not married / attached - she is going to find out quickly.
You exhibited a sense that you were already overly enamoured with her = she read you like a book.
She can replace your one hour at the SPA with anyone, how can she increase / lower her costs in general = you. She's going hook line & sinker you, she done it many times before.
You will become her Driver, Handy man, Dinner dude, Door dash, Wardrobe supply manager, Boy toy.

You should say, "Sorry not this week Honey, I'm busy closing my business due to losses in the market which COVID created, ask for a new day next week instead," then see what her response is.

If she wants and all she cares about is your super fuck buddy benefits, why would she care if you have money or closing a business right?

There's nothing wrong with being super attracted to someone that is hot, especially when in your mind you could never expect to land one like her. Don't pretend you won't / don't have feelings, this will not be about getting fucked, you will fall head over heels (likely already have) for a hot looking girrrr , ,, ,,, and that's where it stops, you will never see the last part = she's a hoe, she does relationships and pats on the ass for money. Do her at the SPA, it's cheaper, even if she says "free" outside, less likely to cost you your feelings and money, just money. After you see her at the SPA 5 times then come back here and tell us how great she is and you are going to be picked up by her horse carriage and going to her castle to compete in the nude Olympics.

Unfortunately I have to agree that this is most likely the goal and outcome.
90% probability of above 10% other.

 

[gcoogieben]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Answering some of the common feedback-

Only go for it if you’re single
I’m single, so I’m primarily concerned about anonymity and security

She’s only doing this freebie to lock you in/extract more from you
She made clear this isn’t a money thing, so if she’s trying to build a sugar daddy relationship after this visit, I can ghost her.

Don’t bring any valuables with you
I have a burner phone, bringing limited cash and going to get a cab (not to exact location). I’m also going to check out where the place is once I get the address and see if it’s an area I feel unsafe. The spa isn’t known for having problems with questionable girls, drugs, pimples, LE, etc, so that helps my comfort level with all of this.

Do it at a neutral spot, like a hotel
On two minds about this, not because I’m cheap, but want to decide once she shares the address because I’m curious.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

Don’t fall in love/stuck in relationship that fucks up your life
I’m going into this with a clear head and I wouldn’t partner with someone like this for various reasons, so I’m not worried (thank you to the anonymous friend for sharing his experience with this).

Also, something else that no one brought up that I realized today: I better bring my own condoms lol

She’s working you, how is she not getting off at a shift and needs more when she’s done?
Not all of the clients do FS and the ones that do, she’s servicing them and not necessarily creating pleasure for herself, some are uncomfortable experiences.

I have thought about how emotionally and mentally sound she is, but if I have this visit in the right circumstances, I can easily back out/leave and ghost her if it doesn’t feel right.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

Everyone is looking too deeply into this. There’s not enough information to access steps beyond fucking her for the night.

Just go and have fun. Bring your own condom, treat her like a lady and not like a whore. Your a guest in her home. Be romantic and bring some alcohol, since she’s Chinese it’s common for guests to bring something (food/wine/fruit).
If you just show up to fuck and leave it’s pretty low class. Leave a good impression because it gives you an advantage for the future.

Report back and we can advise on next steps if you want to go further.

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Marriage? Nah. Too much work for her.
It's about fast cash, man. She wants to take his money and run.

They all play games

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Everyone is looking too deeply into this. There’s not enough information to access steps beyond fucking her for the night.

Just go and have fun. Bring your own condom, treat her like a lady and not like a whore. Your a guest in her home. Be romantic and bring some alcohol, since she’s Chinese it’s common for guests to bring something (food/wine/fruit).
If you just show up to fuck and leave it’s pretty low class. Leave a good impression because it gives you an advantage for the future.

Report back and we can advise on next steps if you want to go further.

Why bing owl

 

[Deleted member 79939]

They all play games

They are actresses who give fs and HJ and fake fwb

 

[wwgawtfif]

I would think today's snow storm would be the best time to see her. Horny girl at home all by herself, you probably could have got her to pay for the Uber too.

 

[xtc27]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Answering some of the common feedback-

Only go for it if you’re single
I’m single, so I’m primarily concerned about anonymity and security

She’s only doing this freebie to lock you in/extract more from you
She made clear this isn’t a money thing, so if she’s trying to build a sugar daddy relationship after this visit, I can ghost her.

Don’t bring any valuables with you
I have a burner phone, bringing limited cash and going to get a cab (not to exact location). I’m also going to check out where the place is once I get the address and see if it’s an area I feel unsafe. The spa isn’t known for having problems with questionable girls, drugs, pimples, LE, etc, so that helps my comfort level with all of this.

Do it at a neutral spot, like a hotel
On two minds about this, not because I’m cheap, but want to decide once she shares the address because I’m curious.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

Don’t fall in love/stuck in relationship that fucks up your life
I’m going into this with a clear head and I wouldn’t partner with someone like this for various reasons, so I’m not worried (thank you to the anonymous friend for sharing his experience with this).

Also, something else that no one brought up that I realized today: I better bring my own condoms lol

She’s working you, how is she not getting off at a shift and needs more when she’s done?
Not all of the clients do FS and the ones that do, she’s servicing them and not necessarily creating pleasure for herself, some are uncomfortable experiences.

I have thought about how emotionally and mentally sound she is, but if I have this visit in the right circumstances, I can easily back out/leave and ghost her if it doesn’t feel right.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

Gd move!

… we laff @ old times where they thot girls nvr got horny…. But lotsa dudes here can’t believe she’s horny!

… not only do they get horny, but they have weird attractions… just like us… dudes liking whales , grannies, , & short tiny spinners , girls sometimes just get turned on by Wtf nose what…

She digs u, u turn her crank… u just do it 4 her… & in these awful sh!tty times, she decided hey, this makes me feel alive, gave u the invite…

Sure, there could b all kinds of strange plans… mebbe u wake up in a bathtub of ice & no kidneys… … but she’s the one taking all the risk… let’s just say, lotsa strange men out there!

Lotsa guys here had fun w girls outside the spa… … nuthin bad has2 happen…

Getting in2 adventures w pretty girls = part of the fun of being a man

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

You all do realize he is sharing a fantasy story just to chat here.

 

[Apolyton]

I guess we all forgot one simple approach. Honesty. In person, explain your apprehension about her request to have sex to satisfy her. Simply ask her directly what she wants and expects from you.

I once had a "friend" whom I saw at her home off and on, over a seven year period as she continued to work. The sex was phenomenal. She was open to everything. It did eventually became a transactional relationship. Her occasional expectations were lunches, dinners, some shopping and short country drives. Never asked a penny from me and paid her way. She was also generous with gifts to me. She is the one who first asked me what I wanted and what I expected from her. With boundaries set, it was fun.

 

[Deleted member 64273]

You all do realize he is sharing a fantasy story just to chat here.

Doesn't matter if it's real or not. It's still fun/funny!

 

[TheWhiteShadow]

You all do realize he is sharing a fantasy story just to chat here.

Used to think it could never happen…
It happens!!!

 

[luvdafurburger]

Gd move!

… we laff @ old times where they thot girls nvr got horny…. But lotsa dudes here can’t believe she’s horny!

… not only do they get horny, but they have weird attractions… just like us… dudes liking whales , grannies, , & short tiny spinners , girls sometimes just get turned on by Wtf nose what…

She digs u, u turn her crank… u just do it 4 her… & in these awful sh!tty times, she decided hey, this makes me feel alive, gave u the invite…

Sure, there could b all kinds of strange plans… mebbe u wake up in a bathtub of ice & no kidneys… … but she’s the one taking all the risk… let’s just say, lotsa strange men out there!

Lotsa guys here had fun w girls outside the spa… … nuthin bad has2 happen…

Getting in2 adventures w pretty girls = part of the fun of being a man

It's true sometimes some guys take things outside the spa just for a fwb situation and it works out win/win at least for awhile. Ymmv. For sure knock your socks off if that's the case.
Sure some of these girls are bored and don't know a lot of people so why not go out and have fun and have good sex.
Just make sure you ask yourself what's in it for her because she sure as fuck isn't going to be transparent about that. No one is.

 

[xtc27]

You all do realize he is sharing a fantasy story just to chat here.

Dude’s not presenting it as fantasy… & stuff like this happens…

Same as any review, we don’t know if it’s true… but we’re also talking 2 everyone who has stuff like this happen

… it’s weird when u connect outside the spa… gr8 but also, well, strange, & u can’t really talk about it w anyone… excep here

 

[hookerpuncher]

You all do realize he is sharing a fantasy story just to chat here.

Maybe he is but its entertaining and we need something to keep us occupied unless some drama appears.

It does happen though, maybe you suck and can't get it to happen for you lol

 

[c1000]

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

I had a feeling.

Bro, I hate to break it to you but these foreign Asian girls fall in love with every third customer.

As long as you and her know the rules and understand the boundaries, Go ahead.

 

[Cool-Story-Bro]

Maybe he is but its entertaining and we need something to keep us occupied unless some drama appears.

It does happen though, maybe you suck and can't get it to happen for you lol

I'm so sorry if I offended you in anyway. Here, please fill out this form & one of our representative will reach you out.

 

[felixami]

i had a fwb deal with an awesome SP
so i know it can happen
we were friends for many many years
we took road trips
i met her child
i met her mother
i stayed over at her condo
we just really liked each others' company

 

[hookerpuncher]

I'm so sorry if I offended you in anyway. Here, please fill out this form & one of our representative will reach you out.

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lol where are you getting your comebacks from? The bottoms of 4chan or something.

This doesn't even have any relevance in the context of the reply. Am I butthurt? Nah. I'm calling you naïve and have no game if you haven't seen this situation occur.

If you're gonna insult someone make it cut deep like calling them a chink or gook.