Newbie at Relationships, help!?

[Leigh]

Right, I've been talking to this girl for about two months now and she told me that she liked me (sorry for how childish this sounds) but I don't know if i'm attracted to her (she is quite funny though), to be completely honest I hardly ever find anybody attractive, or maybe I do and I don't realize, not sure.

I've never had a relationship before, i've always been to one that people like to mess around with and sleep with but not to have a relationship with, so I was shocked when she said she liked me, so I was going to ask her out but I don't know if I am just thinking I like her because she said she wanted to have a proper relationship and not just do other stuff. But I think I actually want to give a relationship a try, even though I having got a clue how to 'do' them.

However, I don't want to hurt her, if I realize I don't find her attractive or not, it's not my intention to make someone feel bad and I will feel really guilty if that happens, so what should I do?

BTW, I'm not some man-whore that sleeps with everyone, they have always asked me, not in a prostitute way either, just thought I would clarify that because I've re-read my question and I sound horrible so please don't prejudge me and answering my question will be appreciated.

Thanks

 

[chris b]

rule of thumb, if you are unsure, you are unsure for a reason.. you are not against relationships, just against one with her it sounds like.. why put both of you through it if you are half heartedly going through the motions and are unsure to begin with.. you will find a girl that you will want to be in a relationship with and who is sure about you.. you do not need this relationship to survive.

 

[NatxandxMilly]

i think you should go for it and give the relationship a try! it sounds like you're ready for one, and it's not as difficult as it sounds, it's just kind of natural.
if it doesn't work out, then at least you've tried, i'm sure the girl wouldn't be too upset and would rather have you as a friend then not have you in her life at all.
hope this helps