Suki at Utopia

[Arabella]

I went to Utopia in search of Suki tonight. (1 A.M.) after I had a very nice time with Anastasia at WAGG and needed to get some relief.

I found out that she doesn't take oriental clients!! I saw her when I walked in and she was beautiful, tall and slim.

I understand why she doesn't want to take asian clients, but personally I am very dissappointed.

I was hoping to add a review tonight but this ended up being a warning.

If you are asian, don't go looking for Suki.

 

[Question Man]

Just curious....what understanding do you have as to why she doesn't take Asian clients?? I know there are women that don't take Black clients, and I accept that as fact, but I certainly don't understand it.

When you say you understand it, are you saying you agree with the reasoning? Again, just curious....

TIA

 

[Fl_lCK OBAMA]

Sparty

I have heard this many times before of Asian providers not taking Asian clients.

The reason in the past has been that the Asian community is very close knit, family oriented. Therefore, she may fear if she takes an Asian client that somehow there would be a risk of her being outed in her community. The risk is low, but not one that some Asians are willing to take.

Of course I don't know her particular reason, but that has been the reason many Asians have expressed in the past. It has nothing to do with being racist, just wanting to be sure one can be "in the closet" in the community which may not look favorably on sexwork or massage.

 

[chris c]

Although I think the same would hold true for White sexworkers not wanting to be seen by their fellow Church goers or Minister, I don't see a lot of Whites saying they don't want to see Whites for that reason. You gotta admit the point is moot when this occurs:



I mean, when you are there working when someone comes in, it's a tad late to run back in the closet...wouldn't you agree? When you knock on the door of a hotel room and the door opens, it's a tad late at that moment as well. When you post a pic on a website...too late. When you walk into a stag party...anyway, you get my point? Once you decide on this business, you can pretty much throw the bashful "I really don't want anyone to know" out the window....

I agree with you that it's not a racist attempt....but does it border on naive??

JMHO

 

[niu]

There was a previous discussion similar to this.

http://209.29.131.76/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50750

I believe Suki is Korean and she doesn't want to take the chance of running in to Koreans as it is a small community in Toronto. I don't agree with their reasoning but respect her decision as I know that they want to separate their personal life from their work.



Why don't certain women accept Black clients? This is the first time I have heard of this!

I think the best solution is for Suki or Utopia to PM me and accept me as a client so that I can put up a better review. He He.

 

[Breck]

I guess I must have missed that other thread... I've always maintained that any woman has the right to pick and choose who they want to see in this business, but like anybody else I'm naturally curious to know "Hey, why not me??" It is a paid date afterall.

If asked, it usually boils down to a misconception/misperception as I discovered in this thread:

http://209.29.131.76/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=43568

or as in this case, the notion that by avoiding common characteristics one can fly under the radar, so to speak. Nothing critical either way, it's not like we are being denied housing or an auto loan, lol...just interesting conversation on why people think the way they do.

 

[JustJules]

I think we should respect the decisions of the MPAs even if we don't agree with their reasoning.

It is better that they tell me ahead of time rather than go through what onelove went through.

http://209.29.131.76/vbulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=50906

If an MPA feels uncomfortable, YMMV.

If Suki ever feels up to taking me up as a client, I'd be very happy. In the meanwhile, it's cool. I understand.

 

[ForumTeamSupports]

look at it this way... if you were in asia, obviously you won't run into a sp/mp who refuses to service asians

similarly, you won't run into a mp/sp who refuses to service caucasians in canada. In business, you simply don't snub the biggest consumer demographic in your region.

I think it's Yuki's restrictions are perfectly reasonable in this case as I have heard of several mps running into acquientences/ friends where they work. I also find that mileage tend to be a LOT lower if the mp finds out that you speak a common language with her.

The asian communities over here (especially the korean one) is fairly small and tightknit. Being asian, i typically keep the fact that I speak chinese to myself and avoid excessive conversation with my asian mp - unless we've established a history and we are comfortable with each other.

 

[LasNoches]

I know this won't make you feel any better, but one of the Indian MPA's I've visited won't service "South Asian" men either, for the same "cultural reasons"...

Thank God I'm just a pale white guy ! LOL

 

[Vanessa M]

Sorry your visit didn't work out flyingdgn ... I enjoyed my visit with suki and I think I will see her again before long . She's a nice girl.

Oh well, such is life.

 

[Jen[Chocolate Burn]]

That is what I keep hearing.

I'm gonna have to get in touch with MJ to find out how he became a white dude.

 

[Jazzie Moon]

And I know you are just kiddin, but this is what gets me. Here we have a fellow massageplanet.netite who, if he looked like rev...or hell, even looked like me, he'd have his dream date. And that's what we do, fullfill dreams.

I'm sure it's as everyone says...and Suki means no harm, but I feel for ya flyin. Tell ya what, I stopped doing reviews a long time ago, can't use as much detail as I like, but I'll book Suki next time I'm in town and send you a stroke by stroke pm on the session. It'll have so much damn detail, you'd swear you had the session....

Don't know if that would help or hurt...lol. Let me know...

 

[Gwillam]

Just out of curiousity, did she tell you herself or did someone else there inform you of her choice

 

[LaLa]

Happy Strokin Spartan5782. I'll be eagerly waiting for the review.

Spode. I saw her by mistake. The receptionist told me that she was busy for the next hour, when I went to sit at the waiting area, she happened to be sitting there. She ran off to the back as soon as she saw that I was asian. I thought maybe she has someone at the back waiting, but when the next guy (non asian) came a different receptionist came to the front (she didn't know I was in the waiting area) and offered Suki to him. I went back to the desk to ask what was going on and she told me that Suki does not see asian customers.

I need to take a peroxide bath.

It wouldn't be so bad if Suki was ugly, but she was HOT!

 

[I heart you]

You're a better man than I, flyindgn. I'm not so sure I'd be so understanding and would find what I perceive to be thoughtless thinking somewhat of a "turn off".

This subject has been discussed ad nauseum, right back as far as Chloe@HFH and Nikki@Embodyment. What puzzles me is that in EBC they are more wary of Caucasians and percieve them to be more likely LE*, hence discriminating in favor of Chinese or Asians in general.

However, then there are many others who discrimante toward Asians and are more comfortable with Caucasians as clients.

Is there an underlying factor. What is the perception of Caucasians vs Asians. Are Asians seen to be more likely to hobby and accepting of it, hence more trustable, but at the same time there's a higher likelyhood of running into a client they know.

Just trying to rationalise something which seems contradictory.

PS Where I live, I'm having a very hard time accepting that Asians are a "small" community. Thankfully, or it would be hella boring cummunity.

*It would make more sense to send in an Asian undercover cop, no ?

Suki suky, suky suky, suky suky soooo !

 

[Occulty!]

Pool, I will be happy to take that job! Maybe too old, but I would like to try!
Anyway, I will try to see her, let's see if a sixty year old Korean man will make it!
I have do this, shit maybe I know her, that would be something.
As I mentioned before the Korean community is so small and things are found out so fast, you would be surprised!
Flyindgn, I will let you know!
Mingo

 

[Mike A]

Lets not all get down on Suki. I see that there are some good reviews on her. I'm the one that was refused and I am being understanding so no harm done.

I also don't think that she suspects me as an LE.

Mingo good luck to you. Dye your hair blond before you go and wear some coloured contacts and don't forget the pale coloured foundation.

I just hope our asian friend in our pants don't give us away.

 

[use your brain]

It has been brought to my attention that Suki is off the schedule at Utopia.

Now I'm feeling like an asshole.

Suki, if you ever read this I appologize for any discomforts that I may have caused.

For all you hobbiests, I appologize as well. I know that she had a few fans on massageplanet.net.

Come back soon, I promise not to write anymore reviews on you.

 

[goingmad]

I was talking with a white "veteran" MPA about penis sizes and she said that she really isn't keen on black men because their dicks are so big that she risks re-injuring her wrist.

I was reassured when she said that with me there would be no risk of that.

DAMN

 

[valerie b]

You see! There is an advantage to seeing asian clients!!