Opinion The Elusive Thrill

[luvsluvsmassage]

I've only had one exp with a MPA where things went very well after about 5 sessions, and it was not related to money but comfort and personality. She worked regular job and did massage/esthetician on side as she was a single mom here alone from south america. I hit it off with her on first massage, because I'm that way respectful and humble, I'much older than her but it was not an issue. I was never draped she was ok with that, about 3rd session she smiled and asked if she could take care of my Rager with a HJ. 4th, 5th and 6th went from rimming to blow me BB and finish with a jerk, to blow me BB and swallow. She was half naked on that last session I knew another session we would have been fucking. She was into me not because of looks or money, maybe she was lonely dunno. She was asked about on here a couple times but no one ever commented on seeing her. Reason I quit abruptly, I could see getting involved with her and that's not in cards. Moral here if there is one, their human, like us, some harder than others, most are full of shit but if yer at this long enough good things come up from time to time, take it for what it is and run with it, or not but remember you only get one crack at this life

So have you taken that advice and gone back to her and run with it some more?!?!? 'Cause that sounds like a perfect situation lol. I can relate. One time the massage turned in fucking much sooner than i would have anticipated. She was into the moment I guess. Getting her number made me feel like she was into more - and i got a bit scared off too. But i did go back and played it cool, and it worked out well. It wasn't what i thought, she wasn't looking for a baby daddy or sugar daddy or relationship. Just into it, with me. Got lucky. So I agree - take it for what it is and run with it.

 

[Albertaman]

I've only had one exp with a MPA where things went very well after about 5 sessions, and it was not related to money but comfort and personality. She worked regular job and did massage/esthetician on side as she was a single mom here alone from south america. I hit it off with her on first massage, because I'm that way respectful and humble, I'much older than her but it was not an issue. I was never draped she was ok with that, about 3rd session she smiled and asked if she could take care of my Rager with a HJ. 4th, 5th and 6th went from rimming to blow me BB and finish with a jerk, to blow me BB and swallow. She was half naked on that last session I knew another session we would have been fucking. She was into me not because of looks or money, maybe she was lonely dunno. She was asked about on here a couple times but no one ever commented on seeing her. Reason I quit abruptly, I could see getting involved with her and that's not in cards. Moral here if there is one, their human, like us, some harder than others, most are full of shit but if yer at this long enough good things come up from time to time, take it for what it is and run with it, or not but remember you only get one crack at this life

Clearly you knew yourself enough to make wise choices for yourself. Smart man. My observation over time is that once a therapist expands her special services on a selective YMMV basis even with one or two clients, it is only a question of time that she will expand that circle further. And since every client is different, she might experiment in new ways with other men. It may not ALL be about money or just the size of the tip when it comes to the services to each client. If one is on the client side, the critical learning is not to get attached or hooked emotionally. Just enjoy what is given but treat each meeting as another massage appointment, no more. Even if it happens in a private setting, and you are fucking each other, every session. Unfortunately there are guys who become obsessed about having spent some time with these rare, elusive therapists. And then they keep asking other people on these boards all kinds of questions (by pm) about the object of their obsession when they discover that others might have had even more fun with their beloved therapist . Yep, those elusive possibilities are out there.. maybe closer to us than we think


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[Deleted member 94218]

So have you taken that advice and gone back to her and run with it some more?!?!? 'Cause that sounds like a perfect situation lol. I can relate. One time the massage turned in fucking much sooner than i would have anticipated. She was into the moment I guess. Getting her number made me feel like she was into more - and i got a bit scared off too. But i did go back and played it cool, and it worked out well. It wasn't what i thought, she wasn't looking for a baby daddy or sugar daddy or relationship. Just into it, with me. Got lucky. So I agree - take it for what i is and run with it.

I still have her number but to answer your question no, and it's my personal situation that prevents it. It's unfortunate cause she's an absolute sweetheart and very sexual. I just know that regardless of how long it might last it will end badly for me..

 

[mambo2]

I have noticed that with the increasing amount of grey, I have been getting more offers. I dont know what it is...I personally dont spent too much time/$$ trying to chase the "Elusive" play anymore, I will try a legit provider a couple times and thats about it. I wont push for it rather just go with the flow.
Albertaman said it right, U have to know where to stop and set the limit... which I learnt the hard way.
I got way too invested into an Asian RMT who is very legit. Her husband used to work away lots and she would tell me about how she didn't feel good... I was a good ear apparently and it paid off for almost 3 yrs. During that time I almost stopped visiting providers outside...but then she moved away abruptly to another province without even saying a goodbye.. and that hurt me lots cause I was attached. I didn't see anyone for another 6 months or so after just to recoup....but I am back to normal now and made a commitment to myself never to do it again..

Thnx
M

 

[GuyIncognito]

Number 1 rule for me is not to get emotionally involved. There is always the risk of being caught, but in my opinion it increases when txt’ing/calling is beyond just setting up an appointment. If I get cold txt’d out of the blue, the number is blocked and I don’t see the provider any more.

 

[Deleted member 94218]

Number 1 rule for me is not to get emotionally involved. There is always the risk of being caught, but in my opinion it increases when txt’ing/calling is beyond just setting up an appointment. If I get cold txt’d out of the blue, the number is blocked and I don’t see the provider any more.

2nd number apps, yer best friend

 

[OC64]

I've only had one exp with a MPA where things went very well after about 5 sessions, and it was not related to money but comfort and personality. She worked regular job and did massage/esthetician on side as she was a single mom here alone from south america. I hit it off with her on first massage, because I'm that way respectful and humble, I'much older than her but it was not an issue. I was never draped she was ok with that, about 3rd session she smiled and asked if she could take care of my Rager with a HJ. 4th, 5th and 6th went from rimming to blow me BB and finish with a jerk, to blow me BB and swallow. She was half naked on that last session I knew another session we would have been fucking. She was into me not because of looks or money, maybe she was lonely dunno. She was asked about on here a couple times but no one ever commented on seeing her. Reason I quit abruptly, I could see getting involved with her and that's not in cards. Moral here if there is one, their human, like us, some harder than others, most are full of shit but if yer at this long enough good things come up from time to time, take it for what it is and run with it, or not but remember you only get one crack at this life

RIP your inbox with a bunch of horn dudes trying to find out who you are talking about

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[Deleted member 94218]

RIP your inbox with a bunch of horn dudes trying to find out who you are talking about

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..yer so right, good luck these lips forever sealed

 

[TBone]

..yer so right, good luck these lips forever sealed

Lol, can you give us a tiny hint, like does she advertise on Kijiji?

 

[getitdone]

the thrill is the most fun part. no therapist sticks around for life, they get old ugly or boring. currently i am focusing most of my energy on one provider. not sure where its going but it gets better every time. after they give in a little bit of the fun is lost. however some providers do keep there wild side longer than others

 

[Outlaw]

There are a few good independent full service providers that also provide a great massage. I would sooner do that than try to get more from an RMT.

 

[Rubmegood]

nfortunately there are guys who become obsessed about having spent some time with these rare, elusive therapists. And then they keep asking other people on these boards all kinds of questions (by pm) about the object of their obsession when they discover that others might have had even more fun with their beloved therapist

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I think we all hear ya...

 

[Albertaman]

Lol, can you give us a tiny hint, like does she advertise on Kijiji?

It's possible that he was referring to an aesthetician, south side Edmonton, apartment/condo based. But that was in 2017-2018. Positive experiences, for sure, and I wasn't getting my scrotum waxed and smoothed out either. But one thing led to another. Good memories. Other long term members on this board saw her too, but she was somewhat disorganized when
It came to bookings. If there are new talents in aesthetics in Edmonton, even better.


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[Qster]

Over the decades, I have been fortunate enough to have received FS from a number of RMTs in town, the number is probably higher than most think but still a very small percentage of the RMTs I have met. If you read between the lines among the reviews here, search function is your friend, you probably know who some of these are already. They generally fall within 4 categories:
1. The semi-legit establishment which I visited is known to provide more than just HEs, all I had to do was ask. The price may be high as compared to micros or bodyrubs so be prepared to pay a premium. Also, always bring your own protection, failure to do so may be an auto-"NO". The worst which can happen is a "no". Every lady is different, please respect the "no" responses.
2. In true godfather style, I simply made them an offer they didn't refuse. This is very rare, most ladies are either already offering FS like 1. above or cannot be bought. I only do this if I am in a foreign city and I am short of time.
3. Over time, if there is a lady I liked a lot, I would visit regularly and over time, a long time, we started to do more. Prices were usually never discussed, I just kept paying based on market prices of the service. I started with HE only with all of my current regulars and we more now. I only invest my time and $$$ if I really like the lady's personality to start with.
4. In two cases, things develop beyond just a client/service provider relationship. In one case, I started to help out her child and boyfriend; it was complicated and I thought about asking her to marry me. In another case, we became regulars, then we started dating, then back to being regulars when things didn't work out and now, I no longer see her because it no longer feels right.
Why the long message? A few messages, every lady is different, respect their choices, invest time/money only if the lady is worth it. Beware, if you invest emotions, things can get messy.

 

[ObiWanPotato]

everything H.A.T.T. posts is on the TO thread. I never even considered his dream girl was here. I thik you guys are barking up the wrong tree

 

[Romero001]

I’m glad my post elicited many responses, thanks for all your opinions and thoughts.

I went to an AMP for the sure thing yesterday, and saw a young (30ish) attractive body and face Asian for FS. The FS was just ok, a lot of noise on the providers part, but thought this was acting rather than real. No massage and I left 30 minutes all done into a paid 45 min session, my choice to leave. The best part I admit was the accompanied shower. Probably could have stayed in the shower for the 30 minutes.

I’m going to go back to to the semi-legit places and take full advantage of a decent 1 hour massage with a H.E. and if anything more arises out of that, I will consider this a bonus.

 

[JacobB]

No, for me the HE is the icing on the cake for ultimate relaxation. After i'm usually feeling 100% stress free.
Maybe it's just my anxiety, but getting FS would ruin the experience with all the what if's. I know that any chances of anything going wrong are slim to nil. But I would still worry about it for a day or two. I know it's silly, but sadly It's Just the way my brain works. When I get a lil bit bored I simply try a different place or girl. Or go back to one I haven't seen for a while.

 

[Deleted member 94218]

There are a few good independent full service providers that also provide a great massage. I would sooner do that than try to get more from an RMT.

Couldn't agree with you more, at least there is no guesswork you know what you're getting for the money.

 

[Deleted member 94218]

Lol, can you give us a tiny hint, like does she advertise on Kijiji?

Sorry brother, even if I wanted too she's left the scene from what I can tell

 

[bih1995]

I always recall one spa at Castle Down, 127 str, (2017-2018), very close to SuperStore....anyone remember that place.There was Asian young one... She was worth every penny what I spent there.