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[Lalallala]

Iv spend so many days and hours.. Back in the day in Woodbridge.. We all hung out at Tim Hortons.. Set up races and find a spot in a industrial area so we can race.. Shoot we also raced on the 407 back in the day…

Haha holy crap. Glad you have safer places now

But I thought I and jjf had expensive hobbies. You win

 

[Lalallala]

We don’t do full 1/4 mile anymore.. Racing now is time at the tree and down half track.. There was so many accidents and people have died.. Rules all have changed over the years.. HP my car is only 2500.. My block will stand up to 4000hp.. It all depends on the category your in.. and the turner you have… you can be disqualified if your car is pushing so many horsepower and depending on the size of your turbos..

“Only 2500”

 

[Whitestorm88]

“Only 2500”

Bro.. That’s nothing… If I wanted more I can.. But that puts me into a different category..

 

[Whitestorm88]

Haha holy crap. Glad you have safer places now

But I thought I and jjf had expensive hobbies. You win

lol.. We never win when we have any hobbies.. Enjoy life and never look back…

 

[Lalallala]

lol.. We never win when we have any hobbies.. Enjoy life and never look back…

Yep! That’s how I approach it as well.

 

[special services]

full service should be 20 dollars

 

[Bmofotp]

Watching & playing sports are also hobbies . They are also service based with monetary compensation. Semi-legitimate is a real distinction. Some women will stroke you off but will not fuck for money. Many clients prefer that, too. Don’t kid yourself that you can fuck every spa girl if you offer enough. You can’t. And I can most definitely negotiate pricing, but that is a separate discussion.

You're mixing different concepts here. Watching and playing sports may both be hobbies, but that doesn't mean every service involving money is a hobby. A professional athlete is not "hobbying" when they get paid to perform—just like a provider isn't engaging in a hobby when offering services in exchange for compensation. This is business, not recreation.


The term "semi-legitimate" is a marketing construct, not an objective reality. Whether a provider offers one service or another is a personal choice, not a reflection of legitimacy. Some women may choose to provide only specific services, and that’s their right. But that doesn’t make one business model “more legitimate” than another—it just means different businesses cater to different markets.


No one said you can sleep with every provider just by offering enough money. Consent is the deciding factor, not price. Some will decline regardless, and that’s entirely within their rights. But when a provider agrees to a service, she also dictates the terms of that agreement—including pricing.


As for negotiation, you may attempt to negotiate, but that doesn’t mean it’s standard practice or should be expected. In legitimate businesses, prices are set by the seller, not the buyer. You don’t walk into a store expecting to negotiate the price of a coffee or a pair of sneakers—why should this industry be any different?


At the end of the day, providers set the terms, not clients. If you don’t like the terms, the choice is simple: move on.

 

[drky]

Been out of loop for a few weeks, but did the overall average go up recently because of the whole EBC thing going on? I generally tip along the lines of the majority here, maybe the high end of the listed numbers, and they are generally happy. Was caught a little off guard when I handed 90 tonight and heard them say under their breath "should be 100" for a basic BS. I heard it and gave them extra 10, no big deal but threw me off.

Wanted to see if people are seeing higher numbers lately or I just got a one off.

 

[Surgeon1936]

Been out of loop for a few weeks, but did the overall average go up recently because of the whole EBC thing going on? I generally tip along the lines of the majority here, maybe the high end of the listed numbers, and they are generally happy. Was caught a little off guard when I handed 90 tonight and heard them say under their breath "should be 100" for a basic BS. I heard it and gave them extra 10, no big deal but threw me off.

Wanted to see if people are seeing higher numbers lately or I just got a one off.

i gave today 140 for good massage and fun

 

[Lalallala]

Been out of loop for a few weeks, but did the overall average go up recently because of the whole EBC thing going on? I generally tip along the lines of the majority here, maybe the high end of the listed numbers, and they are generally happy. Was caught a little off guard when I handed 90 tonight and heard them say under their breath "should be 100" for a basic BS. I heard it and gave them extra 10, no big deal but threw me off.

Wanted to see if people are seeing higher numbers lately or I just got a one off.

I've noticed some new girls asking way more than expected. Two newbs recently caught me off guard with their demands. Normally i would tip more than their ask if the massage and/or service was good anyways, but their ask was way inflated for essentially sub-par quality work. Sure, they look good, but agency girls look better and their menu is way more and the asking is way less.

 

[drky]

I've noticed some new girls asking way more than expected. Two newbs recently caught me off guard with their demands. Normally i would tip more than their ask if the massage and/or service was good anyways, but their ask was way inflated for essentially sub-par quality work. Sure, they look good, but agency girls look better and their menu is way more and the asking is way less.

Overall massage and service was good but nothing extra ordinary. It was even a bottom on BS. Happy to usually give girls a bit more so everyone is happy. Just felt off that they expected even more. Kind of shooting themselves in the foot when competition is so high at the place.

Mistakes were made on my part of not seeing how much new girls ask for, assuming it's typically standard at places I often visit. Was thinking if there was a price increase recently.

 

[Lalallala]

Overall massage and service was good but nothing extra ordinary. It was even a bottom on BS. Happy to usually give girls a bit more so everyone is happy. Just felt off that they expected even more. Kind of shooting themselves in the foot when competition is so high at the place.

Mistakes were made on my part of not seeing how much new girls ask for, assuming it's typically standard at places I often visit. Was thinking if there was a price increase recently.

nah. i think it's the newbs not knowing what market is like. I saw a veteran recently and she insisted i take back $40 of my tip. smh. And the massage was nothing short of excellent. the new girls would probably ask for more despite a shittier massage.

 

[drky]

nah. i think it's the newbs not knowing what market is like. I saw a veteran recently and she insisted i take back $40 of my tip. smh. And the massage was nothing short of excellent. the new girls would probably ask for more despite a shittier massage.

This was supposedly a vet at other spas. But good to know it's just this one and not an overall increase.

Lost a lot of my regulars favourites in the past 3 months. Hard to find good new regulars sometimes.

 

[Lalallala]

Lost a lot of my regulars favourites in the past 3 months. Hard to find good new regulars sometimes.

I know the feeling. One of my two favs went on vacation, and the other one seemed to have second thoughts about her choice of career, which absolutely negatively impacted our sessions. So, yeah, i'm in the same boat. There's a couple of gals I like but none have reached the same favoured status as the previous two where I would be happy to just see even just one of those two every day.

 

[Whitestorm88]

So we’re all aware of the importance of the bylaw in RH.. I have read we should as clients get numbers from our favourite MP.. So my question is.. Would you travel to Mississauga or Vaughn, Oakville ect or any other cities to see your favourite MP? Assuming they work in these areas.. Would travelling discourage you from seeing them… How far would you go.

Reason I’m asking because one of my favourite May ended up going to Kitchener/Guelph.. She has worked there before and now the spa owner is calling her back..

For me it’s going to be a lease 45 to an hour drive depending where she is..

 

[Lalallala]

So we’re all aware of the importance of the bylaw in RH.. I have read we should as clients get numbers from our favourite MP.. So my question is.. Would you travel to Mississauga or Vaughn, Oakville ect or any other cities to see your favourite MP? Assuming they work in these areas.. Would travelling discourage you from seeing them… How far would you go.

Reason I’m asking because one of my favourite May ended up going to Kitchener/Guelph.. She has worked there before and now the spa owner is calling her back..

For me it’s going to be a lease 45 to an hour drive depending where she is..

100% I would travel to. I wouldn’t be able to see her multiple times per week but would try to make it at least once per week.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

100% I would travel to. I wouldn’t be able to see her multiple times per week but would try to make it at least once per week.

I don’t even repeat once a week down the street from me.

 

[Lalallala]

I don’t even repeat once a week down the street from me.

Haha I think our definitions of favourites are much different. I only have one or two favourites at a time and they are favourites because I try to see them fairly often.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Haha I think our definitions of favourites are much different. I only have one or two favourites at a time and they are favourites because I try to see them fairly often.

My top 2 I only see every 3 weeks. The rest less often.
That’s how they stay my favourites. Otherwise another will replace them with that status.

 

[OG_funguy]

So we’re all aware of the importance of the bylaw in RH.. I have read we should as clients get numbers from our favourite MP.. So my question is.. Would you travel to Mississauga or Vaughn, Oakville ect or any other cities to see your favourite MP? Assuming they work in these areas.. Would travelling discourage you from seeing them… How far would you go.

Reason I’m asking because one of my favourite May ended up going to Kitchener/Guelph.. She has worked there before and now the spa owner is calling her back..

For me it’s going to be a lease 45 to an hour drive depending where she is..

Man, I have some very close faves but I don't think I would drive all the way to Kitchener or even Guelph to see them...we're talking both ways and who knows what kind of traffic you would face.

Within the GTA is do-able...but i would be hesitant to even drive to Mississauga or Oakville.

Just see her on her day-off, I'm assuming she lives in the GTA....she probably knows some spas where she can meet you or take her to a hotel..