What to do about s/o that snoop around (thread title changed by mod)

[Gerik]

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I agree with Ginger. don't blame the STAR! your story is another story.

 

[Johnny Rocket]

We don't live together...not married.
She has no access to my cell phone bill, and the bill doesn't list local calls.
When she suddenly blurts out the phone number to Star, I freak out!
Deny, Deny, Deny the whole way...then she calls pretending to make an appt. for me.

After she makes that call, I call Star...
I speak to the attendant who answered her call...
She seemed flustered...then asked me what I wanted her to tell her next time she called...

That should be a standard thing...give no info!

If I decide to go to a MP, I am hoping that my visits are confidential, no matter who calls!

I don't know how much of her info is just the result of her fishing, but she is on the right track, and that is uncomfortable.

I will NOT be visiting any MP for a while...maybe never again.

 

[Matty boi]

Then why did you give this thread the title "Star Studio Divulging Client Information"?!



That's great, in fact, you should be banned by Star for maligning them with a story full of holes.

 

[Nuge]

HFH does ask for driver's licence (well the last time I was there but that was over a year ago.... not sure if that practice is still in place).

I think the important thing to point out here is that MrSauga made the initial mistakes so that either his SO or co-worker found out what he's been doing. What the real story is, irrelevant..... the point is that he is to blame for his own downfall. Somehow his SO ended up contacting Star not the other way around....... any info she managed to fish out has to be credited to the SO's fast talking and the other person on the other end being caught off guard.

But more importantly how much of this is the SO's bluff? How much does she actually know?

If anything those with SOs should be rethinking their habits as far as are they leaving a trail rather than fearing the spas.

Anyways, I'm sorry for being a bit negative seeing as this is not the type of stuff you want to hear right now but you brought this on yourself.

Oh one more thing do you really think many secretary's book appointments for their bossses? Why would the boss include someone else into the mix? It's not like it's that hard to book an appointment so really to get the secretary involved is to simply add an element of risk. All it would take is one bored/tech savvy secretary to quickly figure out what Star studio is.

But I could be wrong as I don't have my own secretary.

 

[Sad Mom]

HFH asks for an address or a license. It's not that hard folks just make up an address.

They will ask for license if you pay by credit card.

 

[? cosmochick ?]

I don't understand why Star Personnel have to call back a number if you have not left a message for them to return you call back. I had them called my home number several times and then hung up when my wife answered the phone. Did a trace on the caller and the call came from STar Studio. These people should understand the kind of business they are in and be a bit more discreet or else they could find themselves in a lot of trouble.

 

[b_witch]

have sp or mpa call you at work or worse home - it has happened to me once but the lady also divulged her real name which I verified on canada411 - that's why payphones are the best sol'n except not all sp will answer them...

 

[HelloMyNameIsJake]

The problem is, when confronted by information you know to be "somewhat true" a person tends to stammer to say the right thing.

yes more than likely a cell phone bill busted you. But your SO had a feeling something was up prior. A simple biz card etc won't usually throw a woman into rage.but there are exceptions.

Your reaction to her question was your downfall. You were busted. It came out of the blue and you were not quick enough on your feet.

always have a reason in your mind WHY you saw this particular provider no matter what the service level is. Practice saying the answer...practice hearing the question.

Remember it will be asked in anger or an accusatory tone. If you can't answer right away with the correct response you are busted.

Now go off in a corner and figure out what the correct response is for your SO. Thats your real problem!

 

[arman]

I too, almost got caught with my hand in the cookie jar..........but I
1) Denied everything
2) Found a single friend who took the heat for calling the numbers
3) Issued an ultimatum, would my S/O rather I pick up girls in a bar or
pay for it and come home to sleep in the same bed with her?
IF I was cheating on her or going to MP/incall places?

 

[Adam]

The Intrigue!!!
If I knew you and knew you would be this dramatic i may do it just to watch you unravel......