What makes guys think these ladies are special once you leave the room? Itโs a fantasy, most of them take off there makeup and donโt even look the same. And they are acting in the room(lord only knows the shit they say about clients behind their backs) . Just go and enjoy the fantasy and for 40mins 1hr have fun with a sex chick. The spa is not for relationships, you may have a minor friendship, but once they realize it doesnโt benefit them itโs done. Letโs stick to the business side.
The problem with guys is what makes this industry tick, guys are weak and easy to manipulate. So go to the spa and fuck that girl like your in love, but when you walk out the door forget about her till next time. You will save yourself some pain. No offence to industry ladies, your not exactly dating material.