Hey! I am having trouble becoming horny - help!

[Paco]

Hi! I am a 26 yr old guy that is loosing sexual desires/wants. Why am i not horny? Is it something to do with me working nights for over 2 months straight? Before i was on on days and was horny as a porn star. Please help me!

 

[Roflcopter]

Twenty-six and still expecting to be experiencing sexual desire!? You are confused. Are you some sort of pervert? Obviously it's nothing to do with your work schedule. Why the average man packs it in at twenty-three and never again gives sex a second thought!

More worrrisome is the fact that you were experiencing sexual desires up until recently. That's decidedly abnormal for a man of your advanced age.

Suggest you change your diet and eat only the blandest of foods. For example, corn flakes are acceptable. But not too much sugar! Also, consider wearing several pairs of gloves and underwear when you go to bed. You don't want to accidently stir things up when you're asleep.

Anyway, I had some more good ideas but I forgot'em. Dadgum Alzheimer's. Good luck sonny. Sounds like you're gonna need it.

vvv

 

[bambinn]

crocket,

when you work with a black man as sexy as tubbs these things will happen. just make your bust and return to the day shift. also, maybe it's time for you to blow up the daytona spyder and move up to the white 512 tr. if that doesn't work, marry shena easton.

 

[bandittt x3]

Maybe you're just not attracted to women anymore.Try getting a male escort to see if he can rekindle your sexual desires.

 

[imamidnightlover]

I'm surprised you didn't suggest Gary Boy. C'mon, steer a little business the old man's way.

vvv

 

[nirvana]

VVV this guy could'int handle the Garyboy.Jumping right uo to the Garyboy without having any man to man expierience is like playing in the ECHL your whole life and then being thrust right into game 7 of the Stanley Cup Finals.It's just too BIG of a jump.

 

[MusicIsLife]

A sharp reduction in your sex drive is one of the signs of depression. I am not a doctor but I am sure there could be many other causes as well. You would be well advised to see a medical doctor.

 

[Susan C]

It is good to know that when a fellow massageplanet.netite needs help.

He can always count on you!!!

 

[Allary]

The more you worry about it... And it freaks you out... The harder it will be to get over the issue.

But on the other hand... Horndog is correct... Depression can be a cause of this. Oh and so can stress, and many other factors... Take a deep breath and book an appointment with your GP... They will refer you accordingly.

 

[mike70025]

You didn't say what else led up to this problem besides working nights.

Many things could reduce libido, including: de-sensitization through over-exposure (ever heard Weezer's "Tired of Sex"?), depression, exhaustion, or avoidance (like when you're with a woman you don't like anymore, and you don't break up with her, but avoid her sexual advances).

I wouldn't worry about it. For most men, the simple cure is to meet a new woman who is aggressive sexually. If that happens, and you still don't care for poon, time for a trip to the doctor.

 

[Oasis]

get Viagara

 

[Gringa_uno]

try a shemale first THEN a male

babysteps first....

 

[daringafire]

Crocket ;

Maybe you are just growing up. There's a hell of a lot more to life than sex. I know some times it doesn't seem like it , though.

You'll save a lot of money and maybe even get involved in something meaningful. You'll probably get your sex drive back after a while, for use where it has more meaning as well.

Let us know how it goes, because many of us have yet reach your possible level of maturity.

Good luck.

 

[Brodo]

There can be a lot of factors, depression has been mentioned. Its been shown in studies to reduce testosterone levels. So does excessive drinking and smoking over time.

If the problem is physical, eating a lot of protein has helped boost testosterone, and make sure you keep in good shape. Working out increases your sex drive. Especially if its high intensity.

You can always look at herbal supplements. Ginseng, saw palmetto, etc are examples. They have good long term effects.

But otherwise go see a doctor if its serious. Worrying about it will only make it worse.

 

[Paperlilly]

See the Massage thread, Debbie from Allure. Crocket seems to have made a full recovery! I wonder which of the suggestions made was most useful to him. Hmm.

vvv

 

[Peter Griffin]

Ha ha, I have to see this MPA that has 'brought the dead to life', if that's the case!

 

[Hanna]

Thanks for all your responses fellow massageplanet.netites, I am feeling better now and have even had a few sessions at Allure with my new favourite-Paula. I have figured out what my problem was, I was feeling depressed alot recently and I think it had something to do with my quitting smoking. It left me feeling rather down for some reason. i also started exercising which helped my sex-drive alot, you wouldn't believe how much. Using Nicorette also helps keep the urge away to smoke and dosen't leave me so down. Actually quitting smoking is one of the best things I have done, I feel alot better, more energy, strength, and it is true, the size of my little soldier has increased 10%! Not to mention improved stamina! Smoking is just evil, I probably wouldn't have been through all of this if I didn't start smoking. Now all I need is to reduce drinking, but I love to drink too much, maybe next month. Perhaps night shift had to do with it also, but i am still stuck on that so i will have to put up with it for awhile longer.